My DD is 15 months and when I had her it was difficult labour I had an epidural and ended up being torn and cut with 3rd degree tear. I was not incontinent afterwards but do find it difficult sometimes passing urine, I manage to go but always feel like there is a bit more but it just wont come out and when I stand up it feels like it will then and sometimes does a little! I get a numb feeling there sometimes (a bit like a trapped nerve- strange to describe) just wondered if this may have been the epidural as there are long term side effects or is it my pelvic floors? Does anyone else get this?