Hi there....I wasn't diagnosed until I was in my late 30s, but had been having "episodes" since I was in my early 20s. I have temporal lobe epilepsy with complex partial seizures, so I don't conk right out, but I DO have a kind of hallucination (whilst still being aware of what's going on around me...no idea which one is real when it happens), my lips smack and I swallow a lot, plus I tap my fingers against the thumb on the same hand. The physical bit I had no idea about - hubby told me I do that.
Must ask questions:.
1 - when will they do the EEG?
2 - when will you get the results of that?
3 - if it doesn't show much in the way of results, INSIST on a sleep deprived EEG - this is the only way my epilepsy showed up.
4 - how soon will your child be referred to a neurologist? Will this be the same neurologist they'll see all the time? Ask for continuity - this is important.
5 - what about a specialist epilepsy nurse, for additional support? Is this available?
Advice I'd give you - research the medication prescribed to your child thoroughly yourself. Keep a close eye out for any side effects - ANY sign at all of your teen feeling unwell within a week or so of starting them should be taken very seriously. I developed a potentially fatal side effect (Stevens Johnson syndrome) and was very lucky that I'd followed my instincts to stop the drug even though a locum doctor told me I had a virus. Listen to your child's body - it'll tell you if something isn't working.
I'd also question the medication in terms of how it will effect growth, development etc. 16 year olds still have a lot of growing to do, and that's not something I had to think about.
Get your GP on board as soon as possible. Mine learned about epilepsy with me.
Be prepared for your child to be very very angry about this, if it is diagnosed. It's totally life changing. I lost my driving licence, my business (cos I couldn't drive and live rurally), my independence, my ability to support myself and my self belief and confidence.
Initially you and your child may well be terrified. They'll give you all these leaflets about staying safe, SUDEP (sudden death in epilepsy), rules about not having a bath when you're alone, not cooking by yourself, not having too hot a shower, not going out for a walk alone......it feels like a life sentence. And it is, in a way, but from my personal experience (and I'm lucky, I know....partial seizures are the "easy option") life goes on. You learn to work with it, not have it dominate your life. After all, I could be hit by a bus. It's just as likely.
xxx