THis is very kind. We have loads of support in place, friends are rallying round, my work is being exceptionally understanding, as is dh's. My sixth formers a volenteeing to baby sit for me, and keep sending me e-mails and cards for support. The RAF welfare people are linked up to us, and we are seeing our Macmillan Nurse this morning.
I already have someone who 'does' for us
Dh has started the palliative chemo and is feeling very well so far....he will get more tired as things go on.
The kids so far are mostly in the dark....but they do know that daddy is ill
The mavmillan nurses are solid gold, we have one in the hospital and when she knew we wanted to get out early to get dh to dd's carol concert, she fast tracked us to the front of the queue for treatment. They know that every minute counts.
Dh is going to contact our finacial advisor today....we are not loaded but quite 'comfortable', and he wants the peace of mind of knowing that everthing is 'sorted' to the very best of his ability.
We have loads of fiends who are doctors and nurses....plese, and I mean no disrespect, we are not into 'alternative' therapy.
Tomorrow we go into town to get some jewlery made for the kids to keep in later life.
I do pop in to MN, but I don't really want to post atm, I may later, I don't know
You are all so kind, and I can't thank you enough, but don't worry, we are, as far as is possible 'sorted' and supported. In many ways we are astonishingly lucky.