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Anal skin tag surgery. Frightened. Any experience?

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Minime85 · 30/08/2015 21:54

I'm due to have a large skin tag removed in October. It has been making me miserable for about a year. When it's swollen it feels like I'm sitting on a golf ball! It's large enough to pull the inside out sorry TMI. It's more worse than it isn't if that makes sense. But the surgeon told me how bad the recovery is and I'm really worried about it being so painful afterwards and maybe creating other problems. I already suffer with IBS so last thing I need is to make things worse. Has anyone had this op done? Thank you

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N172C · 05/05/2021 14:50

@AnonymousX7 yes I would try the number on your letter. If you went private and they can't do anything at least you will know sooner rather than later. I am sure they wouldn't do anything that would make you worse that would be unprofessional. I am still improving slowly, a bit sore at times but less so / less often. Still hurts a bit going to the loo but that is probably improving too. Day to day there hardly seems any difference but looking back it is getting better. The surgeon said that is normal x

Gabby555 · 05/05/2021 17:22

Did any of you take birth control (contraceptive pills) while surgery? I'm not sure wether I should stop taking them before surgery and I haven't been talking to doc about this

N172C · 05/05/2021 18:02

@Gabby555 I was told I could keep taking them.

Gabby555 · 06/05/2021 12:43

And you did keep taking them during surgery time? I'm suprised, I tought it is forbiden because blood clots can form in your bottom

N172C · 06/05/2021 18:06

@Gabby555 yes I took one on the day of surgery as normal. They said it was fine to take as usual.

Gabby555 · 19/05/2021 17:38

How is everybody doing? How are you feeling?

N172C · 19/05/2021 18:44

@Gabby555 a bit better thank you but not got to the end yet. Still hurts a bit going to the loo and still got some soreness but I guess it is improving. Wish it would just be properly better but think it is going to take longer yet to be fully healed. Can't say I have found this very easy to deal with, I will be glad when it is all over! How are you?

H226 · 19/05/2021 18:55

@Gabby555 I am the same as @N172C just so fed up now and wanting to be pain free but my issues are more with a new fissure! Soul destroying but hey ho I've healed once il do it again! How are you?

Gabby555 · 21/05/2021 12:48

I'm sorry to hear you are still in pain. Unfortunately my health colapsed. I started to have stomach pain and acid reflux. At the beginning I tought I'm going to end up in hospital. I unfortunately probably won't have my skin tag removed due to stomach problems. I still have constant bum pain. I'm fed up with my health.

H226 · 21/05/2021 13:44

Aww @Gabby555 that's awful for u. Hope u get it sorted.x

N172C · 21/05/2021 18:46

@Gabby555 really sorry to hear that you are not well. Can you have some treatment to help? I hope that you can get your problem sorted out x

Gabby555 · 24/05/2021 11:12

I'm still figuring out what is my diagnosis. Probably I developed some kind of ibs. This is very complicated and it is making me deppresed. I want to be healthy again :(

N172C · 24/05/2021 19:30

@Gabby555 I can understand you feeling that way. You just want a solution so that you can get better. Can you get any help with how it is making you feel as well as trying to sort out the actual problem x

Happy1011 · 02/06/2021 18:40

Hi guys,
I've had so much help from this forum reading up on your experiences. I do have a question i am to be operated next Tuesday for my anal skin tag. I am pretty terrified as i read a lot of horrifically stories but i will do it anyway. My question is how did walking go? I have a dog that needs to potty three times a day. He is a big active dog and i cant just leave him to do it in the garden... I will rest as much as possible but i will have to go out and walk. How did that go? Thanks so much for any replies

N172C · 03/06/2021 08:12

@Happy1011 if you can get someone lined up to help I would do. I don't have a dog but I would have struggled. I didn't leave the house for three weeks but hopefully you will feel better than I did. I hope it goes well for you x

H226 · 03/06/2021 09:18

@Happy1011 I agree with N172C. I have a dog and I had my parents take him for a week n then I was fine to do little walks but not far as I got uncomfortable n that was the same for about another week and then I was able to walk further

Happy1011 · 03/06/2021 15:40

Thanks guys i will keep it in mind making my decision! Might have to cancel it in that case until it fitd my schedule better :)

Gabby555 · 27/06/2021 15:49

Hi how are you all feeling?

Happy1011 · 27/06/2021 16:05

Hi Gabby! I am doing well. It's been almost three weeks for me since removing 2 skintags. I had 5 stitches in total. I haven't had any bad pain and BM's have been without problems. I could do everything again after the first week. Its a little bit swollen still but it already looks so much better than before so I'm very glad. My experience had been pretty good overall! It's a bit itchy lately but i got a cream for it which helped perfectly to keep the itch away.

How are you?

Dm846 · 26/07/2021 21:07

Hi guys, I have been reading this forum religiously ahead of my AST surgery and wanted to share my experience so far. This site has been invaluable so hoping I can give back! I am on day 5 post-op of having one large tag removed and having a very positive recovery.

Pre-op: 3 days before surgery I started on a low-residue diet. Super bland, not much fiber, and soft foods. I wanted to have as little in me as possible! The day before surgery, I stopped eating solid foods at 2pm. Surgery was scheduled for 8:30am, so the night before I did an enema, as the surgery center wasn’t going to give me one. Again, I wanted to be a cleared out as possible! Also, a month or so prior to the surgery, I started taking a stool softener and fiber supplements to get my system regular (had been pretty constipated before then).

Op: surgery scheduled for 8:30am and I was in the recovery room by 11:30am. Putting in the IV was probably the most painful part! This was my first time under anesthesia and I’m prone to nausea, so I asked them to add an anti-nausea line with the anesthesia. Doctor looked at my chart and must’ve seen that I take anti-depressant/anxiety meds, so he added some anti-anxiety meds as well! I spoke with the surgeon ahead of time and told her no matter what else she saw up there, ONLY remove the tag LOL. Waking up from anesthesia was probably the hardest part, as it triggered my asthma and I had trouble taking deep breaths. I was also super groggy and tired. Had some gauze stuffed in my bum and when I got off the bed, I saw blood on the sheets. Freaked me out! 25 min drive home was fine.

Day 1: home from surgery and feeling fine. No pain, but aware that I’m probably still numb. My surgeon said it would only last about 6 hours. I took a stool softener and laid on the couch for a few hours. Took a Meloxicam (prescription ibuprofen I think) and napped for 5-6 hours. Still no pain, but made sure I stayed on top of my meds. Meloxicam is once daily so I took Tylenol every 6 hours as well. Skipped the laxative because I didn’t want to have a BM for another day. Made sure to use my handheld bidet/peri bottle every time I peed just to keep the area clean. I think I had some pasta with a bit of butter and cheese for dinner, but kept it to soft foods. Surprisingly hungry! Was able to take my dog around the block very slowly. Iced on and off to keep the swelling down. Took another stool softener before bed along with a low dose of Gabapentin.

Day 2: woke up and still no pain, just more of an awareness of the surgical site. I made sure to set an alarm while I slept so I could take the next dose of Tylenol. Slept with a giant overnight pad in case of leakage but didn’t notice any. Pretty gassy but no BM yet, which I started to get nervous about even though I wanted to give it a day or so. Drank some prune juice, had a stool softener, and made oatmeal for breakfast. Didn’t nap today but laid around on the couch and took a couple short, slow walks. Still just taking Meloxicam. More pasta for dinner with a fiber supplement. Shocked I’m still not in pain! There’s a tiny, tiny bit of discomfort but just enough to remind me there was a procedure. Still icing on and off, even though I hear it can slow healing. No bath yet but showering. Aware that I still haven’t had a BM so might still be in the honeymoon phase!

Day 3: slept through my medicine alarm but didn’t need it. Was a little achey at the site but still no pain. Just took Tylenol today and skipped the Meloxicam as I heard it might be constipating and I didn’t need it. Definitely wanted to poop today so I had some prune juice and caffeine to get things moving. Finally!! I could tell I needed to go but my nerves kept “sucking” everything back in. I had to push a little just to relax my bottom but then something came out! No pain! Hopped in the shower to clean off and applied some Lidocaine just to keep things feeling good. Had a couple more bigger BMs over the next few hours but no pain. Continued to rest and take slow walks. Had a 4th BM at night and was starting to get annoyed. Fortunately all were very soft (looser than the first 2 actually) and not much pain. A small bit of stinging that quickly went away. Skipped the stool softener and laxative as I didn’t want to have a ton of BMs the next day.

Day 4: woke up a little achey and had a tiny bit of discharge. Haven’t seen any blood since post-op, really. No weird smells either! Had a large BM right away that made me feel a little sick, but I think it was because I had a lot to let go of. Have stopped icing, but shower after BMs and put on Lidocaine. I also use a hair dryer to dry the area after getting it wet. Had some Tylenol and breakfast. Since yesterday was pretty active in the bowels, I wanted to keep things light on fiber to stop me up a bit (without getting constipated). At this point, I have a big appetite and I’ve just kind of eaten when I want without getting too crazy. Nothing heavy or super greasy. Still resting and walking! Feeling itchy today so I took some Benadryl. I’ve had a couple baths today to keep things clean even though I didn’t need them for pain. Took a 20 min walk and felt itchy/irritated at the site, but not painful. My mom has been in town to take care of me and she wanted to go out to dinner on her last night. I had a lot of bread, chicken Caesar salad, and half a cheesecake. I was really nervous for how my BM was gonna be after eating a bit indulgently! Got home and felt weirdly dizzy and bloated, but no idea why. I’m starting my period any day now so it could’ve been that. I think it was also a lot of anxiety about what the next BM would bring! Had some prune juice before bed to prepare for tomorrow. Finally fell asleep and prayed all would be well in the AM.

Day 5: woke up to no ache at all. A tiny bit of discharge but feeling good. Popped a stool softener but skipped any pain meds. No BM for a few hours and no urgency. Dropped my mom off at the airport and came home to have my daily cocktail of Emergen-C and pre-workout (for caffeine). Had a large but loose BM shortly after and was pain-free! Used my squirt bottle and some hem wipes to clean things up and letting it air dry. Laying around on the couch but feeling great today.

I’m hoping since it’s been an upward trajectory so far that things continue to improve! It’s crazy how some AST surgeries are brutal and some are a short walk in the park. Right before surgery, I told my surgeon I was going to try to skip the narcotics and just use the ibuprofen and Tylenol, and she all but laughed! In fact, she said I would probably need the Vicodin and that I could even take 2 at a time. I was preparing for a tough time and even psyched my friends up about it for about a month ahead of time. They are all laughing now that I’ve been totally fine! I’m sure I’ve just gotten lucky and probably the AST was in a good spot (about the 12 o clock position and the “stem” of it right in the opening) but also glad I took a lot of precautions ahead of time. I have a pretty low pain tolerance so I don’t think that had anything to do with it. Also want to note that there is no bulge so far, but when I gently prod the area, I think I feel a bit of inflammation in my hole, though not the outside.

Hoping this very long account of my recovery is helpful to someone! It’s so hit or miss, so if you’re thinking about it, do it! I panicked for a few months and had a big cry at one point because I was terrified of the recovery, but I’m glad I did it. My tag removal was mostly for aesthetic and hygienic purposes and it really only hurt when I wiped. I knew I couldn’t live with it forever, especially since I’ve had it for 8 years and it kept getting bigger!

Wishing anyone else a speedy and easy recovery 🙏🏼 Going to be VERY careful from now on as to not need a more invasive surgery in the future!

Anon9870123 · 27/09/2021 19:19

Really glad this thread exists, not a lot of people talking about this around the web!!

I'm 26 with basically a full ring of tags (I'm estimating five in total - they most resemble flaps I guess, they're larger on one side and smaller on the other). Never had kids and have no other health issues around the area or elsewhere, just a load of tags.

I first saw the doctor in May 2019, and after examination he said it would have to be two surgeries to avoid complications, i.e. the ring healing too tight. He was also quite open about the recovery being rough, but obviously on this thread there are quite a lot of different experiences.

My tags don't cause me any pain or irritation, the main reason I want them gone is self-consciousness around sexual partners lol - and hygiene. I'm due to make a decision re. surgery mid October, but I haven't quite decided... the recovery really frightens me.

Don't know if anyone is able to share updates on their recovery process? And massive thanks to those who already have x

Dm846 · 27/09/2021 23:15

Hi @Anon9870123! I am 2 months post-surgery and doing great. I had barely any pain so I may be an exception (full detail in the comment above yours). I was able to get back to my life pretty quickly which was nice. To this day I will occasionally bleed after a hard BM but not much and I've heard it's pretty normal. I saw my surgeon about a month post-op and she checked the site and said everything looked good.

Good luck with your surgery! I would go into it expecting to be in a considerable amount of pain and be relieved if it's not as terrible as you hoped! It will probably suck for awhile but it will be worth it :)

Anon9870123 · 27/09/2021 23:47

@Dm846 Thanks for your reply, I'm glad you're doing well :) definitely going to be taking a few tips from your account, it's very helpful!

I'm definitely expecting at least some pain but trying to see if there's any way I can work out where on the spectrum it's going to be... but it's hard to tell if there are reasons some people have an easier time of it than others :/

Belleangel22 · 12/10/2021 14:23

Hi everyone thought I’d jump on this thread. I have a small bit of excess skin about half a cm in size at 12 o’clock on my anus after an anal fissure a few years ago. Went to a private surgeon who agreed he can remove it but seems only reluctant do to remove it under GA, I’d much rather have it under local as it’s a lot less faff and quicker and much more cheaper for such a minor thing. What are you guys thinking on local vs general? I don’t see why he won’t remove it locally as a lot of people have had them removed this way. Bare in mind it’s only one tiny one and I have a high pain threshold so the actual thought of the procedure doesn’t bother me that much. He is getting back to me in a few weeks with a price and if there is anyway he can remove it locally even with heavy sedation. Feeling a bit at a loss, if I do have to go through with GA what is it actually like? How long are you there and when can you go home? I’ve never had GA before so that’s what makes me nervous. Also for anyone who had a tag similar to mine what was the recovery like? I realise a lot of you are saying it’s been really hard but then I’m noticing some of you have a few removed at once and some quite large. I’m 20 years old fairly fit and healthy , at uni and work part time in a shop. Thanks

Belleangel22 · 22/10/2021 11:26

Hey , getting my removed locally in a couple of weeks. Just wondering how soon after it will I be able to have sex? Not anal sex just normal sex lol. Recently in a new relationship and don’t wanna keep delaying sex