My 72 year old FIL has an abdominal hernia that he has had repaired twice before, last one in 1984. After each op, he has managed to damage the repair and end up back at square one.
He is very overweight in his stomach area (although pretty slim everywhere else) and extremely unfit, with respiratory problems and hip problems. Most of his health issues are present/exacerbated by his tummy weight. His heart is in good shape however, and he isnt pre-diabetic. He is not bedridden, but isn't particularly active as his hip pain stops him walking distances.
He has just been discharged from an overnight stay in hospital as he is suffering with severe constipation. My DP is worried sick about him and wants his dad to have another hernia repair to improve the quality of his life (easier to walk without big hernia tummy etc) but FIL has decided (without any medical knowledge) that it can't be repaired as the NHS won't attempt it.
Can I ask if anyone has any experience of hernias in the elderly? Is a hernia repair still possible, after two previous attempts? I wonder if technology has moved on in the 30 years since his last operation?
Any advice gratefully received - DP is going to see FIL next week and wants to be armed with facts to enable him to persuade his dad that another try is worth it.