My 89 year old uncle fell this morning in his care home and broke his hip. He normally walks with a 3-wheeled walker and he already has vascular dementia. He is going to have surgery this afternoon for the broken hip. My understanding is that broken hips are not good in someone his age and that the surgery could well make his dementia worse. I don't live near, so can't see him easily. My questions are, how likely is he to recover from this? How long is he likely to be in hospital and what sort of care will he need when he gets out? He's in a care home, but it's not a nursing home - should we be thinking about somewhere else for him?
My mum lives near, but she is 83 and looks after my dad who also has dementia and she's pretty stressed. What questions should I be asking and is there anything I can do to help? I can't get down there easily this week
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