Can anyone help me work out if I need to see a doctor about this? I have rheumatoid arthritis and although it has been well managed in the past I am really struggling with pain at the moment. It is difficult to do anything beyond going to work, I am spending my evenings slumped on the couch exhausted and unable to face doing anything. I am short tempered and sleeping very badly and feel close to tears whenever I have to talk about my illness. The last twice I have been to the doctor I have ended up in floods of tears. I am very aware a lot if this sounds like depression but it is all entirely related to my illness. Is it worth trying to get anti-depressants for something which is purely situational? I can see that I am lucky in many ways, I was diagnosed 20 years ago and I have managed to keep well enough to do most things I've wanted to in the past. How do I try to accept this is what my life is like now? I feel I had loads of support in the past when I was first diagnosed and I don't know where to seek help now because I am seen as a 'coper'. And I am not coping, not at all.