Newborn baby

[Nightowl75]

Hi im new and just wanted to ask people a question son in laws sister has just had a very poorly baby who might not make it, (sad) everyone is beside themselves and i just want to do something to let them know we are thinking of her and her family. I was thinking about a basket filled with their fav things like a sweets a biscuits crisps and some smelly things, they are away from home staying at the hospital. Does this sound like a good idea or totally insensitive, and any ideas would be welcome?

probably on the wrong thread but i couldnt find to one that was what i was looking for

I am so sorry to hear about the baby. I think it is a lovely idea and would show that you are thinking of them.

thank you im sorry if i cant reply tonight im away to work but wil try and look on my mobile

Sounds lovely. Things I found useful in hospital were lavender oil for my pillow, nail file, small pack of tissues, handcream.

I would just send some food. I mean an actual meal. It's hard getting real food in hospital. Soup in a heated flask, or plates of food, with cutlery and drink. I think your heart is in the right place, but I would keep it practical.

I could make some soup but that's about all hot as they are 300+miles away from us! Looks like baby might be going to a hospice they will find out in a few days!

I'm so sorry to hear it. That's tragic news. I didn't realise how far you are. It must be hard to be so far away.

The hospice will care beautifully for the family, I worked in a children's hospice where we took very poorly neonates for end of life care and it will be much more homely than NICU. Much love to you all.