Bleeding after sex - help needed

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Have seen the GP, have seen them before on one occasions about this, which they were happy to leave as it was a one off, close to period etc, but with strict instructions to come straight back if it happens again. Has a variety of bloods done, all clear.

Saw GP Friday, she wanted me to come back this Fri for examination to see if its anything obvious, then she will refer me for further tests, she said she prefers to be able to say something on referral letter and take some swabs (for infection) (such as obvious polyp or no obvious physical issues).

I explained that I had Bupa care so would prefer a private referral, she said she would rather have a look first as she would be referring me "Query cancer" anyway and it would be quicker on the NHS (which I cannot agree with) and that Bupa would most likely push me back to NHS.

Add to this I have got my period early so she will not be able to examine me Fri (I am guessing?).

So what do I do now? Rearrange to see her (meaning about another week delay), see her Friday anyway and insist on gyne referral?

I was reasonably level headed about it but her casual "query cancer" has been keeping me awake. I know its a possibility it was the blase way she said it.

Sorry its long? Need someone to tell me what to do?

yes i dont , think she would be able to take swabs when it is your period.
and go ahead for NHS if that might make it easier. hope all is ok

ring the practice and ask them if you like

The majority of post coital bleeding is caused by a cervical ectropian ( formerly called erosion) which is very common and can be seen using a speculum. So yes, it does need checking by your GP. It would be easier when your period has finished.

if she recommends a referral via the rapid cancer referral service I would accept her decision. She does know the services. If there was a need for treatment then you could transfer to the private sector if you wanted to. But as I say that, in the absence of other history/ symptoms, cancer is very unlikely.

Thank you

MatildaTheCat that is really helpful, thank you. Sometimes when it is about yourself you can't see the wood for the trees.

Will give the surgery a call and try to rearrange.