This is a long one.
I have very bad teeth. Both of my top two wisdom teeth have been removed in the last 6 months. Dentist wants to remove bottom left and a broken molar on the bottom right. Am massively dental phobic but managed to sit through both top extractions no problem, it was pain free and quick.
However when it came to the bottom two, it didn't numb properly. The right side of my face was so numb that I couldn't open my eye yet when he started trying to remove the molar I ended up screeching and having a panic attack. I let him try a further two times and the same happened.
The molar has now broken to the point where there's only half of the outer left and next to no middle as I end up spitting more of it down the sink each time I brush. There is no pain however.
Went back yesterday for an exam and to try again. Cue panic attack. I already take heavy anxiety meds and had taken extra in preparation but I ended up sobbing shaking babbling hyperventilating etc.
I also need 2 fillings, a scale and polish and other "considerable" work he said.
I have begged him to send me to somewhere that will sedate me. He insists it doesn't exist unless I pay private. I posted here today on another section and a MNer found my local community dentist and the website NHS confirmed that they do all treatment under inhalation sedation for nervous patients. I have to see him again next Wednesday. My DH is coming with me to advocate for me because he is tired of seeing me in physical pain and seeing me so depressed and terrified. I also have bi polar disorder and 2 DDs aged 6&4 to look after and its destroying me to be blunt. I have tried a total of 4 times to sit through it and I just can't, and I can't bear the thought of trying again.
Please help me, I'm looking at it taking a year to save to have it done privately, and I have no idea how to manage the pain for all that time.