I know I should be patient and wait for results and let the diagnosis take its course but just wondering if anyone had any thoughts on what's going on with me?
In June 2014 my husband was diagnosed with hodgkins lymphoma. It was around this time that I developed constipation and a pain in my lower left abdomen. The pain is there most of the time, even in the night, it eases if I move my bowels but then comes back on. My bowels are bad, i feel pressure and that i need to go, but i can't. Some days are better than others and i'm making huge efforts dietary wise but haven't taken any laxatives for it yet. The constipation and pain is none existant when I'm on my period.
I had been thinking that it was irritable bowel brought on by the stress of j being ill, because i had these symptoms over a year before when during a very stressful time at work. That time it only lasted a fortnight. This time it's 8 months and still going.
J is in remission now so stress levels are nowhere near as bad as they were in November when it was at its worst, but i'm no better. I went to the doctors in December. He was thinking ovary related due to it being better when i'm on my period. So he has referred me for an ultrasound. The appointment has taken ages to come through and isn't until next week. Meanwhile he did a blood test and found that I'm anaemic. He wants me to take iron tablets but i just can't face it because of the constipation i had with them when i was pregnant, so i'm taking floradix some days and feroglobin others but i'm now feeling very tired and foggy and struggling to think clearly. The doctor got me to do a stool sample to see if there was any inflammation in the bowel but all was normal. He said he doesn't think it is bowel cancer becase of my age (41) and the fact that it is usually diahorrea as a symptom. He said he'd be agreeing with my on the ibs front if it werent for the anaemia. The next plan is to wait till ulstrasound results and then discuss the possibility of an endoscope.
I'm worried because J has booked us a holiday on 10th Feb to celebrate his remission but i feel worse every day.
I guess what i'm asking is has anyone had anything similar and any ideas of causes?
And also how should i manage the anaemia/constipation? I feel so foggy I can't think straight. Should i take fybogel to help with constipation? Should i take the proper iron tablets? How best to balance the two? Any advice gratefully received? I just wabnt to celebrate J being better and not have all these worries :-(