Agree, the bowel prep is exhausting. It would probably be much harder on someone frailer. Some people find colonoscopies really painful, others breeze through. My sedation failed, but I didn't have any pain. The sedation might also be an issue with her Alzheimer's? I had a more successful sedation for a subsequent procedure and I felt very out of it afterwards, drifting in and out of sleep, and not remembering things properly.
I had bowel cancer treatment two years ago and it knocked me sideways and I was an otherwise heathy 21 year old. Some of the patients I met were nearer your mum's age, but none quite as old, and actually all fared much better than me. But I think someone that bit older would really struggle. And with bowel cancer, unlike some others, the surgery also affects bodily functions. Usually for colorectal cancer, they would remove a section of colon containing the tumour, and they would usually need to create a temporary or permanent colostomy (or possibly an ileostomy, depending on location of tumour). These can be distressing, and may cause difficulties if your mum starts to struggle with her memory in the future. They require daily care and the correct application of various parts, as well as having to empty it. As well as the technical issues, the side effects from the digestive alterations can be exhausting. Then the chemo side effects add to that.
That's all a bit negative, sorry. Lots of people do get through the treatment without any hiccups, so it's not guaranteed that she would have all these issues.
I'm so sorry that your mum is going through this, especially after her previous cancers
I hope you are able to reach a decision you feel comfortable with and that the GP is able to help