cazboldy - that is horrendous beyond belief. you poor thing. you must have been at your wits end. both me and my dh have felt horrendous all week. god knows how you must have felt.
i'm with you on the no symptoms thing. my ds was a bit out of sorts - but nothing to when he has been ill before (which he rarely has been - only once before). he actually felt cooler than normal. his temp just shot up so quickly whilst he was in bed and we were down stairs. it's freaked me out a bit.
guilt thoughts have flittered into my mind like: 'what if i hadn't have checked him?' - i caught it right before it began - he could have fitted on his own - that makes me feel very sad and: 'i shouldn't have dressed him in what he was wearing and put a sleeping bag on him...'
This week has been pretty tough; feeling so tired and emotional about our first A&E trauma. I don't feel confident about using a sleeping bag anymore. When i went into his room i just recall seeing him on all fours, facing his mattress, almost panting and crying. I can't get it out of my head . I just think - maybe he wouldn't have got so hot if he could have kicked off his cover. Suppose you just have to put it down to experience and move on. But what a shocker.
The medics said, if it happens again; not to restrain him (which i didn't), and to lay him on his side. When it was happening i did think -thank god i prepared a first aid box a few weeks ago - couldn't use it - but i felt like i'd been responsible, and it eased the stress when i knew where to look for the calpol when the paramedic asked me. Phew. I'm going to keep muslins next to it, so i can wet them and put them on him (like we did this time), and get a water spray to keep next to it, as that might bring his temp down if he is convulsing and i can't put him in a bath (which i've heard you can do. Although it wasn't practical when we were in the throws of it). That's if there is a next time - praying there won't be.
Luckily - like i say - he is acting like nothing happened. His parents, however, have white hair.
i'll be counting down the hours until he's five! i've only got about 3 and a half years of worry to go...
Sorry for long email - using this as therapy. Feel so much better for expressing how i feel. I don't feel like i've been able to do it in the real world. Thanks for being kind enough to share your experiences. It can't be easy remembering those types of ordeals. So, thank you. x