DH was diagnosed almost a year ago and is on meds but still not up to the level the GP thought he'd need yet. He has a blood test and GP visit over the next week to discuss this as he seems to have gone backwards over the last month. His health has greatly improved but there are still symptons like fatigue, muscle soreness and mental health that aren't right. I try to offer support by ensuring he gets lots of rest, especially at the weekends and when he gets frustrated/angry at us I generally try to ignore as I know it's caused by his condition.
However I'm feeling that I'm not providing the support he needs and would like some help from either those with the condition or supporting someone with the disease. We'd agreed that if I felt his moods were getting out of control that I'd gently say something - he tends to lash out at myself or the teenage DC's (not the younger ones). But when I did that last night he got really angry and accused me of blaming his condition and that it was actually my fault he was upset.
When he's tired it's easy, we just take some of the load off him and ensure he gets more rest, afternoon naps seem to help. But it's a lot harder with the anxiety and frustration he's struggling with. Any suggestions would be appreciated.