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Uncomfortable relationship with alcohol

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MrsWicked · 08/06/2014 13:27

Semi-regular here and name changed for this. Feel the need to get my jumbled thoughts out! I've started to become a little uneasy with my relationship with alcohol. I do not believe I'm an alcoholic, and I don't think I need professional help, I'm just a little uncomfortable. I'm wondering if anybody else has ever felt the same.

I don't drink every day, and sometimes not even every week, but when I do I worry that I like it a bit too much. I don't drink to pass out, and I don't do anything too foolish, but in the right circumstances (social ones) I sometimes feel a bit out of control. I don't drink at home all that often - DH and I will share a bottle of wine sometimes, or I'll have a couple of beers or ciders, maybe two occasions a week max. I can have alcohol in the house without drinking it or even seriously craving it. I have a toddler so don't go out that much. I don't think it's affecting my ability to look after my child or my ability to do my job. I don't think it's affecting my relationship. I had no trouble not drinking when I was pregnant and then when I was breastfeeding.

I don't know what it is that makes me uneasy. Maybe I'm worried for the future. Maybe I feel like at the moment I can control it but that I'm almost at my limit. Maybe I'm over analysing it. I don't know.

Any thoughts?

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MerdeAlor · 08/06/2014 20:51

It's really hard to say whether you have cause for concern.
Really, it doesn't matter how much you drink but how you feel about the amount you drink. If you have an uncomfortable relationship with alcohol why not give it up for a while or keep an alcohol diary?

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