He is, thanks. He's 14 now. Taller than me (which isn't hard, but still...)
What happened was he got stuck during delivery, something called shoulder dystocia. Instead of performing the standard manoeuvres, the doctor pulled him, while screaming help me, help, I need help... and she pulled so hard that she caused nerves to be damaged, resulting in leaving him with partial paralysis. (erbs palsy) The midwife did then push her out of the way, push the siren and dealt with it, but by then my son was in a bad way. He was resuscitated and then started breathing.
Notes were written retrospectively to try to make the situation sound different, other notes were 'lost', the doctor 'disappeared' (the hospital claimed to have simply no idea where she was, only that she had left the hospital and they had no record) etc etc
He's had 2 operations and now has all the function he's going to have. There's nothing more that can be done to increase that.
He was awarded the best part of £300,000 in compensation, which is in trust for him.
We found the hospital itself to be dire. They were so concerned with covering their arses that the midwife who promised to come and see us to explain what had happened was never seen (by us) again. (I was in with him for a week, due to his injuries and the fact I haemorrhaged and I never set eyes on any of them). The doctor who first looked at him said that he had a bit of bruising and it would settle down...
It was quite some time before we even heard the words erbs palsy.
That hospital and anyone directly connected with it shut down on us, closed ranks and saw us as the enemy, rather than our son as a victim of their employee's incompetence.
But everyone outside the hospital - other hospitals, gp, etc, they were all fine in treating him. He has always got what he needs - his operations, his physio, he gets assessed for aids, etc. We learned to never mention the legal action to them though because we'd just get patronised and treated to excuses. Even though they weren't there and didn't know exactly what happened. The default was always to try to find some reason why the doctor wasn't wrong. 