"diseases like rubella, mumps, whooping cough, even measles is most dangerous in those too young to be vaccinated."
Yes - which is why keeping the incidence right down in the rest of the population protected you when pg and your children when they were babies. Your children then, and now, incur the low risk of catching these diseases (that presumably informs and to an extent enables your choice not to vx) precisely because of the others who vaccinate.
I understand and support those with the specific contraindications over vx- families with auto-immune conditions, babies that were on abs at birth, those with particular allergies - but really, outside those groups, what is the risk? And for those groups, and the babies, and the immune-supressed, it's important that we vaccinate. A policy that protects our own children as babies.
We all used to get measles, it was not a mild illness. I lay feeling as ill as ill in a darkened room for 3 weeks, with my mother off work and enduring sleepless nights. I know a person who is deaf as a result.
Moral dilemma? Or complacency made affordable on others' moral choices?