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Was I badly treated by this dentist?

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BoyMeetsWorld · 16/01/2014 15:50

Hi, just after opinions please & what I should do next.

My teeth are really awful & I accept it's entirely my fault. I currently need (diagnosed) 2 root canals and at least 5 fillings.

Today saw a dentist to try & get treatment started - hadn't been able to before whilst pregnant. This is the 3rd dentist I've seen at this surgery - the 1st one left, the 2nd one started my treatment before I got pg but is apparently the 'lead' dentist and his files are full so he's passed me over to this new lady.

That's 3 different check ups I've had before anyone would do work. Today I'd booked a double appointment to actually get started.

After doing my checkup & x rays, dentist said she wouldn't do any work today because there's too much to do & - as i was nhs - I'd need to book multiple half hour appointments. She said longer appointments are reserved for private patients & to do any more than half hour at a time would 'stress her out'?!

She then began a really hard sell. She told me the root canals couldn't be done nhs. I pointed out that I knew they could...she said to do so shed have to put me down as high risk treatment because 'she only had very limited access to equipment on the nhs'. She said she would strongly recommend I went private & quoted me £600-£700 for one root canal. I said there was no way we could afford that whilst I was on maternity leave. She kept emphasising that I'd therefore be high risk.

She then repeatedly said all the fillings would be amalgam unless I went private. I said this was fine as they were right at the back, then she just kept saying it would be lots of half hour appointments.

It felt like a really hard sell to go private. I can't easily do lots of short appointments as I have the baby who is only 6 weeks. My DH called the surgery & they are refusing to let me switch to a different dentist...

Confused
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Mrsmorton · 17/01/2014 22:26

Yes, that. I've seen some awwwwwful endos that have lasted 20years+ and some ammmmmaaaazing ones that have failed after 4 years. There are so so so many factors involved that it's not cut and dried. The important thing is dialogue with your dentist.

Willdoitinaminute · 17/01/2014 22:29

Crowns can last a lot longer but again its about expectations. The patients I have been seeing for 27 years think I'm fantastic when the crowns I have done for them in the past have lasted much longer than I predicted.
They have no problems with replacing crowns that only make it to 10 years because that was their expected lifespan.

Willdoitinaminute · 17/01/2014 22:34

Sorry we I think we are trying to get over the same point. Its all about communication. And yes I agree about success and failure. Although a good endodontist will be able to identify whether a tooth has a good or bad prognosis nowadays.

Mrsmorton · 17/01/2014 22:36

Yes Wine have just left my husband Wine probably should stop giving professional advice from my freezing cold room Wine

Willdoitinaminute · 17/01/2014 22:47

No don't do that! I quite like the fact I'm not the only dentist with a conscience. Hope you are OK.

Mrsmorton · 17/01/2014 22:48

I like my conscience. It helps me sleep at night. I do lots of ooh sessions and dentists with consciences are rare IMO.

Willdoitinaminute · 17/01/2014 23:12

Yes it's good to sleep at night! I am also dead honest with HMRC much to my DH's annoyance but I need my 5 hrs minimum.
I have also found some brilliant ear plugs/anti snoring aids. The pharmacy I bought them from asked how they stopped you snoring. I said that they weren't for my snoring but they certainly stop my DH's snoring from interrupting my sleep. Probably could also call them anti divorce aids.

Mrsmorton · 17/01/2014 23:16

Grin I have a better cure for H snoring. But it's not mich fin.

Hijacking a lot but do you find it hard to be your professional self even when your life is falling apart aroun you but you're worried about complaints. I'm so exhausted pretending everything is ok, I don't know what to do. :-( I've no money, no sleep, I'm just at the end of my tether with everything.

BoyMeetsWorld · 18/01/2014 09:55

Thank you both for the really good advice.

I've decided to switch to a different dentist - one recommended by a friend - as I really didn't feel I trusted the one I saw the other day even if everything she said was essentially right - it felt like she was saying she'd only do a good job on me (it would be her either way not a referral) if I paid privately.

I would be v happy if I had a crown that made it to 10 years! I know my teeth are awful & it's completely my fault for neglecting them so any treatment which prolongs their lifespan is appreciated...so long as I can physically afford it without taking out loans! I'm going to spend some of my savings today on an electric toothbrush to try & look after them better.

Feel free to thread hijack, hope everything begins to pick up for you Mrsmorton

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Mrsmorton · 18/01/2014 09:56

Red wine head this morning. I'm glad you're motivated to get it all sorted though.

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