Suggestions please help !!!Urgent

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I dont want to cry but after sometime I just break up crying in tears.I am 7 months now .. moving out of house is just impossible it becomes difficult to walk .My hubby doesnt shows his face and even if he shows he is busy with work .. I started some part time course and I am finsihing it but whole day at home without seeing a human figure drives me crazy ... I have resisted a lot I keep consolling myself okay things will improve etc but I need a work life badly I can do anything to be out of house and even when I spend some hours in the nursury or children centre near by I feel life is worth it .Am I insane or I am cray I just dont get it how people spend hours at home . I have no interest in TV may be those crappy serials might help me out :P what do u all say :

Regards

G

Sounds like you are not feeling too good! 7 months is quite early not to be able to walk much. Have you had a checkup with your midwife? I would tell her you are feeling a bit down at being stuck indoors on your own.

Is there a reason you can't go out very much?

Try to get into a bit of a routine and plan at least one activity each day. Swimming is good when pregnant, antenatal classes, antenatal exercise classes (ask midwife for help here and do confide how you feel). See if you can meet up with old friends, clean out a few cupboards, make some meals for when baby arrives to freeze ahead, read, visit the library, go to a gallery, walk by the river, have a coffee in town (new or old friends), chat to neighbours you don't normally meet because you've always been too busy.

If you haven't spoken to a soul call a friend or relative. Go to the local shops for milk and exchange pleasantries with the staff. Get chatting to local mums and say you're new to this and finding it a bit hard. You'll get sympathy and maybe a new set of friends. Classes are great for this, too.

It is a really strange time of adjustment but you'll be fine. In a few months I'm afraid you'll be begging for five minutes alone!

Get planning. It's drifting through the days that leads to inertia.