Sorry, this has turned out rather long. Just wondering if any other IBS sufferers can help me work out what I can really expect from my GP.
I was diagnosed 6-7 years ago by a previous GP (after blood tests ruled out anything more serious), since then I have not had regular GP care as I have moved around a lot and spent a lot of time abroad too. Generally my symptoms are pretty much constant diarrhoea (sometimes I can get 'normal' stools if I pay close attention to diet and not too stressed), low abdominal pain/urgency in the mornings and sometimes at other times of day too,general abdominal pain/bloating following eating (avoiding wheat and dairy helps though), and occasional constipation, which has led to intermittent rectal tears, and I think maybe haemorrhoid but I don't know (can't see down there!). A rectal tear was diagnosed around 6 years ago and since then I've assumed the same occasional symptoms (usually after a bout of constipation, severe pain on passing, bright red blood on wiping that stops quickly).
Anyway, I self-medicate with over the counter things; I use a lot of buscopan, probably use loperamide 1-2 times a week (when I really can't spend a lot of the day going to the toilet), occasionally (maybe once every 4-6 weeks) need to use bisacodyl to relieve a bout of constipation. Also occasionally I need to use haemorrhoid relief suppositories to be comfortable. I take a daily probiotic. I drink peppermint tea. I try to stick to a wheat-free and low-lactose diet, but I find it quite challenging, as I will also 'get away' with a certain amount before noticing symptoms building up, so I don't really know whats best. Stress definitely makes things worse. When things get too painful I will use co-codamol.
So I have recently settled back in the UK and went to a new GP for the first time in 6 years about my IBS. He was absolutely shockingly useless. He asked what I wanted him to do about it in a very off-hand manner. He said without the notes from my previous GP he did not believe the diagnosis, I asked if he could not make the diagnosis himself after discussing my symptoms and he said no, diagnosis can only be made by a gastroenterologist. (as an aside as I had joined the practice a month previously, been for my new patient 'welcome' check up and registered my NHS number with them I was pretty annoyed they did not already have my old notes). He did not ask me any questions about my symptoms or history, I tried to remember as much as possible to tell him but he did not ask me any further questions at all. I mentioned I had had rectal bleeding recently and he did not examine me, in fact he barely looked up from his computer screen at all (where he was typing the whole time using just two fingers, he was quite elderly). Anyway eventually he gave me a script for 56 buscopan tablets - saves me a little money buying those on prescription rather than the expensive off the shelf ones, although that is only about 3 weeks worth for me, he refused to prescribe any more until he saw my old notes.
Am I being naive in expecting more help? I have got very used to just dealing with my IBS as just part of my everyday life and it doesn't generally stop me from doing anything, as long as I control symptoms well enough with medication. I have become fairly used to just dealing with mild to moderate abdominal pain as normal and just getting on with things. I'm not sure what I was hoping for, but maybe some dietary advice (other than - you should use fybogel - I explained that I had tried that and high fibre made my diarrhoea worse - he actually said, no, it won't do that!! Erm, yes it does, it's my bowel!!), maybe some guidance as to whether I was managing things right, or a referral to a dietician or even a gastroenterologist if that's who he thinks it should be diagnosed by!!!
I don't want to see this GP again as he really was no help whatsoever. Is it worth my time bothering with GPs at all, is there any more help to be had? Would it be worth looking at private healthcare, I do have some kind of plan through my job that may be useful. What care/help/advice do other IBS sufferers get or expect from their GPs?