I think any public health service has a duty to not treat every patient exactly the same.
A few simple questions, before my eldest child was vaccinated, would have raised enough issues for me to query whether the standard schedule was the right way to go for us.
I blithely trusted what the doctors said - why wouldn't I? It didn't work out very well for us.
Following on from that, I blithely trusted that the same public health service would see us right - after all, vaccine damage is 'one in a million', and our health service one of the best in the world - of course we would get seen by the people we needed to see, get the help we needed (speech therapy, occupational therapy, physical issues discussed, equipment loaned/hired/even mentioned would have been a start).
Education too - that's a right, isn't it? Well, not always, it would appear (the basic premise is, yes, but that doesn't actually amount to education a lot of the time).
But no. Everything that we have got for our child, we have got through our own research, and our own funds. Even trying to find a suitable school placement was a nightmare - the lists we were sent of 'appropriate' schools were incomplete (oddly enough, the ones missing were the more expensive ones
), and we were lied to time and again about how to apply for places, and what procedures to follow. We were lied to about a lot more than that, but that is for another thread.
I don't blithely trust health professionals anymore - the above is jut the tip of the iceberg wrt what we have been through. And I have learned the very hardest way to question, research, and try to find my own way through what is, quite frankly, a minefield.
One size does not fit all, and it should not be pushed as though it does. And, if the health service is going to push forward with a one size fits all approach, then it should damn well ensure it mops up when things go wrong.