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Following on from the mirena thread in chat - why are they SO insistent on them?

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jumpingpillows · 30/08/2013 21:51

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I have brittle asthma, it gets worse with hormones from periods. Since I developed it almost 3 years ago it has been getting worse in frequency and severity. It now takes 5 different drugs every day to control it on a day to day basis but this doesn't stop the sudden and severe attacks I have when exposed to an allergen/infection. These often result in hospital admissions.

All pills that I have been on have turned me in to an evil witch. I become depressed, moody, emotional with sudden outbursts of anger. I have never been violent in my life ever - however when on the pill I had 2 incidents where I felt very very close to becoming violent and that really scares me.

I have a better quality of life off the pill than on the pill.

My GP has told me that if I do not agree to the mirena or the implant - "Well you will end up dead then."

She has told me not to believe everything read about it - well even if I only read 1/2 of it then it still seems awful. 4 different pills have resulted in me reacting terribly to - why would mirena or implant be different?

I have been referred to a gynecologist to discuss this with by my respiratory consultant. My issue as well is if they put it in and I turn in to a witch again...will they remove it right away or will they try to persuade me to stick with it? All the time my emotional/mental state suffering.

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Misspixietrix · 31/08/2013 11:58

I'm not sure I was offered the Mirena after ds1 and refused point blank due to the stories I had heard (RL friend suffered really badly for over à year). What Pills have you taken? They tried me on a range of different ones before DC's and one actually made me violently ill. I was at work at the time and had everyone looking like I had been drinking the profits as I worked in a NightClub!
See what your Gynae says but dont let them pressure You into anything ~

HaveALittleFaith · 31/08/2013 22:04

I think because it works out very cheaply and is minimal management - about 30 minutes to fit it, quick 6 week check then 5 minute removal. Compared with pills that have a high user failure and require monitoring of blood pressure etc and it works out well. However I think it's costing more than they realise in antidepressants and therapy for people who don't realise it's the mirena causing their problems.

I've just had mine removed - two days ago - and I've already noticed an improvement. It's a source of huge regret that I got it. I had it fitted with DD was 11 weeks old and I feel like it has impacted on my mood in the last few weeks at the detriment to my relationship with DH and DD at times :(. Just trying to be positive moving forward.

HaveALittleFaith · 31/08/2013 22:06

Oh I managed 6 weeks with it in. I think if you reacted that badly to the pill I would avoid it, I have taken the pill without too severe side effects but couldn't tolerate the mirena.

RockinD · 01/09/2013 10:21

If you react that badly to the pill, I would think twice about any form of hormonal contraception.

They tried to sell me the Mirena when I was bleeding irregularly. Turned out my regular coil had slipped and once that was fixed the problem went, but I was deeply sceptical about the assurances I was given that the hormones in the mirena stay in the womb. Of course they don't - if they did, it wouldn't work!

Are you or your partner candidates for sterilisation?

jumpingpillows · 01/09/2013 18:34

I don't need it for contraception, Dr wants me to have it to try and control my airways.

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secretscwirrels · 02/09/2013 15:12

Because it saves countless women from horrendous periods and having hysterectomies and there are very many like me for whom it has been a major success.

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