Coming it to report that flame has had coil fitted.
(and to update any comfused, psychoflame are 2 bestfriends who are psychomum5 and flameboo when apart, psychoflame when together:))
Flame is all nice and woozy as before going took some syndol to calm herself down as she was very very agitated and got herself in rather a state about it. Her smears are never a good experience and she thought that if the coil fitting was the same or worse, she was going to be on the ceiling
! (this comes from me who had a general when mine was put in, altho mine was done at the same time as endometriosis treatment, so I had a distict lack of any ability to calm her
)
she says......her tummy hurts:(. they gave her a local inside anaesthetic (which she says is most strange...numb in places that shouldn't be!), and so the actual putting in didn't hurt, just felt like 'poking'! nurse was lovely...held flames hand throughout...flame was good, didn't cut off circulation
. They did look slightly concerned tho apparently...maybe cos she was more nervous than is normal, or maybe cos she was off her face on syndol
.
all in all, she seems glad its all over but wouldn't do it again any time soon
. that said, she wouldn't do babies anytime soon either, so I guess that says more now on the pain

thankyou all lots for the messages...:)