I had both feet done (one at a time) a few years back. There's dozens of different operations depending on what's needed, all with different recovery periods, but I was 6 weeks in plaster/heelwalking each time, driving after 8/9 weeks, and probably the best part of 6 months before I could say I was properly over it.
Pain totally manageable with ibuprofen/paracetamol, felt rubbish for a few days after each general anaesthetic, but day surgery both times.
No bed rest as such, just lots of keeping my feet up. I bought a cast cover for showering, and a plastic stool from IKEA to sit on in the shower, and went up and down the stairs on my bum.
My DC were older, so took on the majority of household stuff, I couldn't have managed it with toddlers.
I'm left with an inch long scar between my first and second toes, and two inch scars along the side of my feet (where the bunions were), none of which re terribly noticeable and are hidden by the Birkies. I've been told never ever to wear heels, and I still have very wide feet, so shoe shopping is still a bit tricky. I wore cheap plimsolls for the first couple of months post surgery as bending my feet to get into eg trainers was hard.