Hello Nostress, I am 5mads friend and I had cancer of the vulva. It involved the batholyn glands but the cancer wasn't in there. It was on the perineum and grew so that the glands were blocked and became infected.
Firstly, PLEASE STOP GOOGLING. You will get worst case scenarios and you don't even know if that's what you've got.
Secondly, I still have all me parts. I had radiotherapy, but it was quite extensive as the cancer was quite large by the time they got round to doing it. It had been partially removed and went berserk when it was cut through leaving me with a tumor the size of a tangerine to sit on.
My gp didn't suspect cancer, even at the speed it was growing. I was told it was a wart, but too big for the gp to remove it. The surgeon also thought it was a wart, which was why there wasn't enough removed. They don't expect cancer in people of our age. ( I was 40 when I was diagnosed.)
Vulval cancer is usually completely curable. I had chemotherapy and radiation. The emphasis was on the radiation, the chemo was to back it up. The chemo that I had did not affect my hair.
Finally, a lump in a gland is usually not malignant. It's usually a stone made of the minerals in whatever the gland secretes.
Fingers crossed it's just a stone.
xxx