Thanks ken for this, much appreciated. Having gone to see my consultant I am now not sure what I want to do! Both yours and Lady Mary's opinions would be much appreciated...
I discussed embolisation with my consultant and although it's still an appealing option, I didn't really appreciate up until now that it would only cause the fibroid to reduce (best case scenario by 60% I was told) but it wouldn't completely disappear entirely....
I also had thought that I could treat embolisation as a first step, and then go to a myomectomy as a next stage if I was unhappy with the results. However the surgeon felt that at the moment that it would be really easy to remove them, but should I embolise or treat with Esmya first, it would change the texture of them and make them more difficult to remove surgically. Not impossible but more difficult.
We then discussed a myomectomy and he felt that I was a great candidate for that having looked at my scan, due to it being one (giant) fibroid and also its positioning. He did also admit that being a surgeon he'd always lean towards whipping them out! I asked about recovery time and he said although they generally say 6 weeks, in reality it's more like 2 weeks. I asked if it was like recovering from a section and he said yes, and having had 2 c-sections, I know that's completely doable. he'd go in through the same scar etc. However the thought of effectively another c-section and not getting a cuddly newborn at the end is a bit daunting.
SO - am now really in two minds.... I had gone in there, thinking embolisation is the way forward, but am now considering the surgery. Bottom line is that I would love to just get rid of the fibroid and be done with it, and i"m worried if I go for embolisation I'll end up having to have (trickier?) surgery anyway at a later date. It's also a good time for us to do it as a family now, my girls are both in nursery so they would be looked after full-time during the week and my DH could pick up the slack at either end of the day and at the weekend while I recover. My DH's job also covers us for private healthcare at the moment and he's thinking about leaving.
At the same time, i'm terrified of willingly going in for major surgery if that makes sense!!
My consultant has totally left it up to me, he's happy to refer me to the interventional radiologist if embolisation is the route I want to go.
What would you do? Any thoughts would be much appreciated...
Ken how much has yours shrunk by, do you know? How long did it take to shrink? Are you in London by any chance?
Thanks in advance ladies and apologies for the very long response...