Hi there,
I'm sorry that you are both going through this, and that things haven't been explained to you very well.
I deal with this every day as part of my job and can reassure you that having both scans is both absolutely routine and essential. With bowel cancers (if that is what it is, it's not a given until the biopsies come back), the routine scan is the CT, which looks for disease elsewhere throughout the chest and abdomen. The most common areas to which bowel cancer spreads are the lungs and liver, and MRI cannot look at the lungs for a start.
We only use MRI to look at rectal (low colon) abnormalities, and we use it to look at how far or if the growth has spread into the tissues in the local vicinity of the growth, as this determines how advanced the tumour is and the likely initial treatment. The options are straight to surgery if early, or some chemo or radiotherapy if it is encroaching on other structures down there.
So in essence, for bowel cancer, MRI just looks at the growth and its immediate vicinity, and CT also looks at the lungs and liver etc.
As regards the MDT meeting, it's almost better in a way if he's had the CT first, as the team will then be able to discuss the entire set of results, both the biopsy and full imaging (we call it "staging" the cancer), and will be able to make a decision on the spot about whether to proceed straight to surgery or whether other treatment is needed beforehand to try and shrink the growth.
MDT meetings are meant to be held regularly each week on the same day, so it won't be long till he's discussed. Also all suspected cancer patients are on a very tight timeline as regards their diagnosis and treatment, so there will be coordinators at the hospital who will be keen to get your DP through the meeting and treatment as soon as possible.
I hope this helps a bit and makes sense! Feel free to PM me with any questions as this is my daily bread.
Good luck to your DP. Bowel cancer, if that is what this is, can be cured completely if caught early.