STBXDH has been off work for two months with rectal bleeding, exhaustion and weight loss. He is an alcoholic (but not in his opinion), a heavy smoker and has a poor diet. His GP referred him for an urgent colonoscopy which he had over three weeks ago.
He was told at the time that they removed some polyps but he didn't ask any questions and he's not one for Dr Google! He had an initial appointment where they said he would get a follow up appointment. He rang to chase this up and said they he'd got it wrong. He asked whether the polyps had been removed for biopsy and they said his GP would get any results. He had been to the GP the day before and neither he nor the GP mentioned it.
Is it normal to have an urgent colonoscopy then hear nothing more? He had blood tests but they all came back normal but he's in no fit state to return to work.
It's a slightly awkward situation as we're separated but get on well. His head is in the sand about everything but I have seen a huge decline in him and I'm very worried, just don't know what to suggest to him. Any ideas gratefully received.........