Hi,
My 3rd child was diagnosed with plagiocephaly (flat backed head). My other 2 children have 'normal' rounded heads.
I would like another baby but DH is concerned that we could have another baby with this condition.
I think it was just a case of me not putting her on her tummy enough as she always cried when I did it. Along with sleeping on the back, which of course I could not change.
DH is of the opinion that we should quit whilst we are ahead. He thinks a 4th child could have even more wrong with it.
We both see this in different ways. Our daughter has a funny shaped head but that's all. In every other way she is fine. The fact that she walked late and bottom shuffled rather than crawled (unlike the other 2) and had physio to encourage her to move off her bottom (just lazziness in my opinion !)makes him think we have an abnormal child. Don't get me wrong, he loves her to bits, but still thinks she is slightly unusual.
I need some evidence to prove that another baby would not be born with plagio as it develops over time in the first few months. I hope I am right in saying that.
Any help would be most appreciated.
I'm sure DH will place another hurdle in the way of having number 4 but at least we can put this issue to rest.