Hi hulabaloo
The pain was controlled by one of those probes that sat on my finger and I pressed a button for a shot of morphine, I had this for 24 hours but it made me very sick so had anti sickness injections too.
I was up on my feet on day2 and walking to the loo ,I just took paracetamol as I was worried about anything else making me sick again.
I wouldn't describe the pain as unbearable at any point but I do have a high pain threshold anyway, the worst pain I had during my stay was when they pulled my drain out, that did hurt for about 10 seconds but ouch!
I took painkillers for a headache which I couldn't shift for about 4 days then it suddenly cleared. No pain after that, just the odd pulling sensation when I emptied my bladder.
Sex was back by 6 weeks ,I had my cervix out too so the stories about less than satisfactory sex after that were rubbish!
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I'd aim for 3 months off to fully recover and go back to work after that.
I'm not on HRT but take a really good supplement, I do get hot flushes and an occasional night sweat but nothing that isn't manageable.