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Breast lump - have lost all perspective.

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SVN · 16/02/2013 20:12

Hello,

As the title suggests, I found a marble sized lump (small marble lol) five weeks ago in my breast. Completely panicked, went straight to the GP and was told to wait two weeks to see if it was a hormonal thing. The lump didn't disappear within the allotted two weeks so I returned to the GP and got a referral to the breast clinic. They were fantastic, ringing the very next day to make an appointment for the following week.

Anyhow yesterday was my appointment with the breast clinic. The consultant checked the lump and then I was sent to ultrasound. She said that I have lots of little cysts in my non-lump breast but that the lump in the other breast was more fatty looky and solid. She then said I would need a biopsy, the results of which might not be available for another two weeks. At this point I burst into tears (at the same point that the biopsy chap and his nurse came in, which was rather embarrassing).

In the consultation afterwards, the consultant said that the lump looked like a benign lump but that they wanted to make certain, hence the biopsy. I only have to wait until Thursday for the results (not two weeks thankfully) but I'm not sure how relieved I should feel. Is the biopsy just a formality or could the lump still be something more ominous?

I'm sorry for the long, rambling post. I've only told my husband and parents (the former of whom dismisses everything as nothing to worry about, whilst the latter look at me like they're going to burst into tears any second). I feel like I've lost all perspective on this. I've gone from hysterical crying and worrying about leaving our three children motherless, to complete confidence that it's nothing at all. Any input, perspective, experience would be greatly appreciated. I really am a bit of a pathetic wreck at the moment. Also, please tell me I'm not the only one who cried in front of the clinic staff? Blush

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Beamur · 16/02/2013 20:17

You will not have been the first and you won't be the last to cry in front of the staff.
I had a lump last year, my Mum has had breast cancer and until someone says to you for definite that all is well it's perfectly understandable to be in a bit of a mess about it.

Fingers crossed for you for Thursday - I think I'd be cautiously optimistic given what the consultant has said.

saycheeeeeese · 16/02/2013 20:17

I can sympathise OP, I have found a lump but its 'down below'.

Spent all day yesterday crying and will probably have a good cry to my gp but that's what they are there for. Don't be embarrassed, have a handhold.

JoyceDivision · 16/02/2013 20:23

I had a lump, after it was checked out I was told I had ' enlarged lymph nodes' (due to my huuuugeeee norks the Dr may have been euphemistically speaking Grin)

I also had a dodyy smear test and had to have the larasc...??? thingy and then get zapped. That was a lot of fun.

By the sounds of it, fingers crossed you will be ok op, then you can burst into tears of relief and celebrate with some Wine

SVN · 16/02/2013 20:29

Thanks all. At least the children are home for half-term next week, so I wont have too much time to sit pondering on it. Just wish Thursday would hurry up. It's the limbo element of it all.

Joyce - sorry to hear you've had experiences at both ends, as it were ;) Very jealous of your huge norks (great expression) I'm afraid I'm not that blessed in that department.

Saycheeeeeese - sorry to hear you're having a rough time as well. Hope the GP reassures you and that your lump is nothing to worry about.

x

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er1507 · 17/02/2013 19:37

My mum had a mastectomy last year and found another lump in the other side went for a check up and scan but it was just tissue. I know it's easier said than done but you have to try and be positive, it's better to be safe than sorry x

notapizzaeater · 17/02/2013 19:41

I have a lump, he's called Stanley - so we could talk about him without prying ears !

Stanley is just a cyst but I too went from laughing and crying for the 2 weeks it took. ((hugs))

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