I never said anything about you hitchhiking a free ride Saintly. I think you're projecting again (a little bit rudely and snidely but I'm used to that).
Point is that you can't do a risk analysis without actually being able to estimate risk.
Unless you've assumed a probability of 1, ie that your children WILL get whatever disease you're vaccinating against!
Which means you've assumed your children will get measles, polio, mumps, diptheria, Hib, pertussis, flu etc.
And you still think it's riskier than getting the vaccine?! On what evidence????
You said once that your doctor said that your kids will probably be fine being vaccinated and probably be fine not being vaccinated. S/he's completely right, unvaccinated kids don't keel over like flies, of course not. But I'd guess that a lot of the 'probably be fine not being vaccinated' is based on the premise that your children won't be exposed to the diseases in question. Presumably s/he would advise differently in the face of a diptheria epidemic.
I'm pretty sure you said as well at some point that your strategy is to reduce exposure to any potential pathogen as you think any illness could be a trigger. Given that you also said you'd researched this a lot and had the support of your doctors, I thought that made sense to me.
But then if that's the case, not taking into account the protective effect of herd immunity in reducing exposure to pathogens is completely irrational. I really don't understand your thought process regardly the probability of exposure.