chapsmum, when I said "we" I really meant "we" not "I". I don't need people to wipe bums, at all, but we as members of the healthcare consuming public do. When I had prolonged block after my c section, and
temporarily lost control, I rang the buzzer for assistance, and a MW came along. When apprised of the problem, she said, "I'll get an auxiliary to help you", and off she went. The auxiliary arrived half an hour later. Yes, I'm sure they were over-stretched, but it wouldn't have taken the MW a few seconds to help me herself. I don't often encounter a dirty bottom in my line of work, but I am not above helping when it's needed.
"If you knew about what nurses in a and e really did you would see that the more essential tasks are missed due to staff shortages and not beurocracy, there is actually very little paper work in a and e." Well, I do see what happens in a+E, and agree that there is less paperwork there than on most wards. I also agree that you have a high volume of sick patients requiring expert attention, and not enough staff. I specifically referred, however, to wards, where beaurocracy has gone wild.
I have worked in the NHS for 25 years, and, I must admit, recall fondly the days when it was the nurses responsibility to look after the whole patient. Now that "personal care" and "housekeeping" tasks are done by other people, it is far easier for someone to say, "it's not my fault that should have been done by someone else". The reason why it bothers me so much at the moment is that I recently had a patient who was left without fluid of any kind for over 24 hours. The "named nurses" (all 3 of them) who were supposed to be looking after that patient, all carefully and dutifully filled in the observation charts, and noted that her urine output had fallen to nil. The fact that she was NBM, was recorded (she had had a minor stroke and was awaiting SALT). The junior doctor was hauled over the coals for failing to put up a drip at the time of the diagnosis, but I was amazed that not one member of the nursing staff seemed to question the fact that she had had no fluid going in, at all.