DH has had night sweats now for about two years, he looks dreadful and for the last six weeks has had diarrhea several times a day. He won't talk about it but he's obviously uncomfortable. There's a few other health concerns but he refuses to go to the GP, claims 'it's a bug and I'm getting over it' but he looks ill. He is pale, devoid of energy and just looks sick.
We have two young children. :(
I'm torn between being furious and being madly upset. I don't know what to do. I'm actively avoiding him at the minute. This sounds really selfish but he's sweating so much at nights I don't want to sleep next to him and the sheets really stink the next morning. So I'm having to change them daily.
How can I convince him to go to the doctors. BTW he's of the belief that a bottle of wine is 'fine for people like him', living on a shit diet of meat and potatoes is just dandy 'some people are actually allergic to vegetables you know' and basically does no exercise.
It's not sounding good is it? :(
Any ideas? I've tried making his mum talk to him (but can't tell her the full story without him getting really angry with me and also she's quite frail too so I don't want to stress her too much).
I'm at the end of my tether.