I have a condition called benign intracranial hypertension which means I have too much spinal fluid. My neurologist says that I need to lose weight as it can be caused by weight gain. I have been trying and failing to lose for a long time. A close friend passed away recently and I've just been eating to feel better and put on more. I'm about 21 stone. My neurologist has strongly suggested a gastric band. I don't know what to do! Has anyone had one? What's it like? I've never had surgery and the idea of it really scares me. I want the condition I have gone and keep thinking I will lose the weight but then when I get anxious I eat. I feel so stupid. And I know it's vain and should be irrelevant but I've heard losing weight with surgery leaves loads of excess skin as its so quick. What do ppl think I should do?