Am asking in the spirit of trying to understand and being pragmatic in these overstretched /underfunded times .
Mother in 90's ,leg ulcers ,gouty and infected fingers = lots of dressings .
District nursing team = lots of different people /lots of different levels of expertise .
Mother very stressed by different nurses ,different approaches ,and ( big one for her ) not knowing time of visit .
Me - very stressed by mothers concerns + boxes and boxes of hugely expensive dressings ordered at random by nurses .
Soooo - I visit surgery ,plan to ask if I can bring mother up to surgery for practice nurse 3/7 for dressings ( because I am desperate for continuity and some control over timing of visits ) .
Nurse at surgery ( beside herself over huge over ordering of dressings ) decides she will do home visits to mother .
Surgery nurse now on leave for 2 weeks ,care handed to DTN .
Who have no care plan and ....quite frankly - 2 visits in + sharp deteriotion in one ulcer - I might as well do the dressings myself .
Questions are
should I cancel DNT and do dressings myself ?
should surgery/practice nurse have handed over better ? ( she said no point as DNT would have their own ideas )
long term how can I improve situation ? ( gut feeling is that surgery nurse has over comitted self ,and DNT procedures not adequate ).
and who is" in charge " - DNT or surgery ?