eragon - Thank you for the information I didn't know there was such a person as a Paed. Immunologist let alone we could be referred to them. I really don't think anyone is taking this seriously and I am being tolerated a bit (like the testing is a sop to my neurotic blatherings). I keep waiting to be told I am just being a fussy mother and there isn't anything wrong with her, that she is just atopic like her parents and there is nothing to do except cream her.
I have asthma, mild allergies - cucumber and melon set off my asthma and cause headaches and I can't take penicillin based anti-biotics after a recent allergic episode following IV Augmentin where I had to be sedated
& hay fever and DH has asthma [very mild], contact allergies (if he touches certain things his hands swell and go blotchy) and hay fever. DH's father is registered disabled due to his extremely severe asthma and has eczema too, plus allergies of one kind or another - not epi-pen allergies though.
We live about 40min from London (Surrey/Sussex borders) so London hospitals are a possiblity. We haven't seen the Paed. yet but will do in April (!) she seems to specialise in asthma/eczema/atopy as well as neonatal medicine.
I only saw the eczema nurse because I was worried about DD3's reaction to wholemeal or the 50/50 kind of bread as she seemed okay on cheap pappy white bread (if she had wholemeal/50/50 bread she would have loose voluminous gritty stools for days with weeping nappy rash - I would wipe her bottom and bits of skin would come away leaving open sores ).
I asked the HV if she had heard of toddlers reacting that way but she hadn't so she suggested getting allergy testing and ask the GP to refer.
I was worried about the wait so rang up the eczema nurse as she had done allergy testing on DD1 when she was about 2y to see if there was an allergen triggering her asthma (luckily now she is nearly 6 she doesn't even get wheezy any more) and she saw DD3 in days rather than months.
DD3 came up negative to the skin prick tests so it was rec. that we do the week off wheat, week on wheat with lots and lots of wheat - not just giving her a biscuit - to see if it was an intolerance (her paternal grandma has had a wheat intolerance but after years of being wheat free she is able to eat small quantities of wheat without side effects - too much and she really suffers!).
I don't think she is allergic to milk as she drinks milk, she is bfing as well but likes a cup of cow's milk and eats cheese, yogurt, fromage frais, butter. She was on an extremely high fat diet after about 7m as her weight gain had completely stalled - so was having a pint or two of double cream a week in her food, plus butter and cheese added to everything possible and her eczema didn't get appreciable worse nor did her bronchiolitis episodes.
Although when she was 6m 3w I was taken to hospital with pancreatitis and couldn't feed her as the pain was so bad so she had formula for the first time. She was ebf to 6m then had one week of food before having yet another bronchiolitis attack and was put back to just bf by a different paed to our usual one so she would recover quicker.
Formula made her poo biohazardous material - thick pasty khaki green, massive poos that stank like nothing I had ever smelt before (I was gagging on the smell) and I only saw her poos when she was having a small bottle of formula a day (I was by then out of hospital and had been able to pump enough in the last few days so that she was mainly BM fed). Apparently she was much much worse when she was mainly formula fed with just a little BM. She wasn't over fed either as the most she would take was 120ml but more usually 90ml (given that was was over 6m and exclusively milk fed it's not any where like the 250ml that she 'should' have been taking).
After this her paed. told me that she can't have formula anymore as it obviously didn't agree with her but didn't think she was allergic just couldn't digest one of the ingredients in formula. So when I had my gall bladder out when DD3 was 9m (back on food by then) she had just BM and food and didn't have the biohazard poos!
Sorry this is such an essay into the inner workings of my family's health problems I just didn't want to leave anything out! I really didn't, did I? Oh yes I did - DD2 has had arthritis and is Hypermobile and so is DD3 to a certain degree!