My 18mth dd had 2 ear infections over xmas, 1 ending with a perforation. She was most unwell with a very high, persistent temperature and didn't eat for a week. She now has a fever again and a slightly bulging left ear - GP has given a prescription for Erythromycin, suggesting I observe dd for a couple of days and not rush to give antib's, and ihas also referred me to ENT consultant. What do I do?? Don't want her to suffer from the ear infection, as I read something on another thread about the bacteria that causes ear infections being the same one that can cause a strain of meningitus, but at the same time concerned about repeated use of anti- botics. I find the responsibility of her health so stressful, because I don't want to harm my baby with drugs, whilst trying to do my best for her.