Hi
My GF and i are both 21 and at university, we made a mistake with contraceptive and now she is pregnant(we think around 4 weeks but are really not sure). She straight away decided to have an abortion for a huge number of reasons, even before she told me she was pregant. I agree with her and our reasoning and ethical views are ours alone, however i would completely support her whatever her decision had been. She is going for a consultation appointment at BPAS tommorow. She seems set on having a medical abortion, even though she hasn't researched the different methods much, as obviously she is scared and doesn't want to be thinking about the procedure all the time. However i want to be able to provide her with as much advice, information and support and thus would love some advice from people as to surgical/medical and any help and tips you may be able to provide for me so that i can try and make it as stress free and easy for her as possible. I have done a lot of research on the internet, but a lot of info seems to be from people with alterior motives e.g care confidential and the trouble is that people with bad experiences are more likely to write about it, as the majority,for whom it was ok, just move on with their lives.
sorry for the ramblings, i am just quite stressed about the whole situation
thanks for any help you can give