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Why can't I lose weight???

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banana87 · 07/01/2012 13:42

I don't get it!!! I had DD2 8 weeks ago and am EBF. I am counting calories using my fitness pal and taking into account 500 extra calories for EBF. I am not eating loads of junk, I'm being quite healthy (lean meats, fruit and veg). I'm dairy free so not eating loads of biscuits or chocolate. However I'm maintaining my weight!!! Why??? I don't get it! I'm not exercising because I had SPD so needing to take things slow (walking at a slow pace with DD in the sling into town was too much for me yesterday and SPD has acted up today). I plan on joining the gym in feb and getting a personal trainer but I am desperate to lose something between now and then! Where am I going wrong??

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banana87 · 07/01/2012 22:09

rudawakening yes, it is more like 1700 a day but breastfeeding expends 500 of that per day. Kellymom says to maintain supply I need to eat at least that much per day so that's what I'm doing.

Would cutting potato (I.e oven chips) and switching to wholegrain pasta work? I only have pasta once a week and bread once a week. I do eat alot of crackers though as I need something to go with the soup other than bread!

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Rudawakening · 07/01/2012 22:18

Yes swapping chips for pasta would be better but leaving both out and having more veg instead would be best. You might see some results with small changes but probably nothing massive.

It really depends on how much you want to lose weight and how committed to it you are. Weight loss is 80% about what you eat.

It sounds like you struggle most with your snacks than main means, try and cut out the biscuits and the crackers. Unless there is something you're eating and not saying there isn't a lot left wrong with what you eat so in theory you should be losing weight.

I used to tell myself my diet was healthy that there was nothing more I could do, I was just destined to be the size I was but in truth I was lying to myself and until I stopped nothing changed. Maybe it is too soon after having your DD but when you are ready I would have a long look at what you really eat, keep a food diary and see what happens, there used to be all sorts that I ate during the day that I conveniently forgot until I started writing it down.

ObviouslyOblivious · 07/01/2012 22:20

I'm still breastfeeding and only started to lose weight when DS was about 7 months old.

ameliagrey · 07/01/2012 22:41

I don't diet as such but weigh within 4lbs of what I did at 21 ( now 56) and was back to pre baby weight within weeks- only put on 1st with each baby. and when BF I had to eat more just to stay my normal weight.

I have an intolerance to gluten and a load of other no-nos for medical reasons, so don't eat bread, cakes etc- not out of choice!

A typical day for me now is-

breccie- boiled, scrambled or poached eggs- sometimes 2, with 2 oat cakes or slice gluten free toast.

Mid morning snack- if any- oat cake with humous, or an apple etc.

Lunch home made soup- usually with lentils, carrot, sweet potato or home made chicken broth with vegs. OR a salad with a tin of sardines, or tuna, or some prawns, or cold chicken with salad- green leaves, beetroot, grated carrot, watercress, sweet corn- whatever is around.

Dinner- fish, esp. salmon 2-3 x a week, chicken, in stir fry or casserole, very occasional lamb or pork chop, gluten free pasta with roast vegetables.
Lots of veg and some fruit.

I don't do dairy either so take calcium, and snack on almonds.

You don't need the crackers with soup- if it's thick chunky soup .

also- are you getting any exercise- walking the baby or otehr DCs to school etc?

ElusiveCamel · 08/01/2012 07:51

How many calories are you assuming you need to begin with? 2000 calories, which is often given as the RDA for women is too much for many women. See a calorie requirement calculator Generally, if a day is not working it is due to underestimating calories intake.

BF, by the way, burns 200 to 500 calories a day, not a straight 500. I would agree with cutting out all refined carbs like the baguette and pasta if you want to drop weight. BF shouldn't really drop below 1500 calories a day total and sudden drops in calories can reduce supply.

Slimming World might be useful to you and they accept BF mums.

ameliagrey · 08/01/2012 07:56

BTW I totally agree with the other poster who said that your estimated calorie intake for that day is innaccurate.

Biscuits have between 60-80 cals- a plain biscuit- so you could be getting as much as 300-500 cals from your biscuits and crackers- plus say 200 from the granola bar.

If you added everything up for that day as an example, you might be surprised Smile

ameliagrey · 08/01/2012 07:59

My "fat scales" say that at rest, I need 1170 cals a day for my age and BMi- which is 19.5 ( BMI not age!)

If you eat too little, it makes it harder to lose weight because your metabolism slows down and your body goes into starvation mode, holding onto fat.

It comes back to eating well and not replacing protein with sugar & carbs when you are hungry.

ameliagrey · 08/01/2012 08:05

EC thanks for that link- my cal requirement according to it is 1450, and take off 300 cals to lose weight slowly. That is allowing for exercising 3 x a week which I do- sometimes a bit more. what was interesting is that if I up the exercise to 5x a week I can only have 100 extra cals a day according to that chart.

ElusiveCamel · 08/01/2012 08:40

ameliagrey Yes, exercise is good because increases lean muscle mass which means you need more calories and it's healthy and speeds up metabolism, but people really overestimate the amount of calories burnt from it. I cycled from Greenwich to Richmond earlier in the year and that probably burnt 400ish calories if I'm lucky - so not even a muffin sad face

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 08/01/2012 08:43

The OP has said she can't exercise due to SPD :)

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 08/01/2012 08:44

She will when it's better but wants to lose now while she can't exercise

BalloonSlayer · 08/01/2012 08:44

I lost loads of weight BF my first, but with the second and third I could not get rid of the last little bit. As soon as I stopped BF it dropped off with no effort at all, both times.

Chandon · 08/01/2012 08:52

Please don t diet so soon after having a baby. don 't be so hard on yourself...

If you had a good weight before pregnancy you will gradually return to that, with no diet, just by eating normally.

All these celebrities with their competitive post baby bodies have a lot to answer for.

The exercise plan is good and will help.

It just takes time, same as it took 9 whole months to put it on.

Cutting out carbs messes with your brain and is a bad idea, ask your personal trainer! Just eat normal, get your exercise started when you are ready and be patient.

doggiesayswoof · 08/01/2012 09:04

I agree with chandon

Dont be so hard on yourself.

OTOH it would not hurt to look at the amount of sugar & refined carbs in your diet. I ate loads of porridge & oatcakes while bf. Porridge is really really easy - couple of days practice following instructions on packet & you will have it cracked! you can sweeten it with fruit or little bit of honey

Stay away from granola bars. V high in sugar.

Think 9 months to lose the weight. It took 9m to put it on...

ElusiveCamel · 08/01/2012 09:04

Cutting out carbs messes with your brain
Any science behind your statement? In what way does it 'mess with your brain'? I wouldn't suggest asking a personal trainer, but I would suggest actually looking for actual medical facts/evidence :)

Firstly, no-one has suggested cutting out carbs to the OP - just refined carbs. The ultra refined carbs that are everywhere are not natural things for humans to eat and most people have way too many of them.

Secondly, the body adapts to no-carbs. It has a mechanism for doing so that is entirely safe. Eskimos, as just one example, have existed on carb-free diets for years. Children (with epilepsy) can safely go on ketogenic (no carb at all) diets for years etc.

Chandon · 08/01/2012 13:56

I thought it was common knowledge, but have linked some info here from a scientific site, with sources and quotes from recognised research institutes (www.fi.edu/learn/brain/carbs.html):

basically, carbs are necessary, just chose good carbs (whole grain bread, note coca cola) that release energy slowly. Cutting out carbs drastically affects your brain:

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Nourish - Carbohydrates Fuel Your Brain

Glucose is the form of sugar that travels in your bloodstream to fuel the mitochondrial furnaces responsible for your brain power. Glucose is the only fuel normally used by brain cells. Because neurons cannot store glucose, they depend on the bloodstream to deliver a constant supply of this precious fuel.

This blood sugar is obtained from carbohydrates: the starches and sugars you eat in the form of grains and legumes, fruits and vegetables. (The only animal foods containing a significant amount of carbohydrates are dairy products.)

Too much sugar or refined carbohydrates at one time, however, can actually deprive your brain of glucose ? depleting its energy supply and compromising your brain's power to concentrate, remember, and learn. Mental activity requires a lot of energy.

Your brain cells need two times more energy than the other cells in your body.

Neurons, the cells that communicate with each other, have a high demand for energy because they're always in a state of metabolic activity. Even during sleep, neurons are still at work repairing and rebuilding their worn out structural components.

They are manufacturing enzymes and neurotransmitters that must be transported out to the very ends of their? nerve branches, some that can be several inches, or feet, away.

Most demanding of a neuron's energy, however, are the bioelectric signals responsible for communication throughout the nervous system. This nerve transmission consumes one-half of all the brain's energy (nearly 10% of the whole body's energy).

Complex vs. Simple Carbohydrates

Complex carbohydrates are like time-release capsules of sugar. Simple carbohydrates are more like an injection of sugar.

Complex carbohydrates tend to be in natural foods ? and have long chains of sugar molecules that the liver gradually breaks down into the shorter glucose molecules the brain uses for fuel. In natural foods, the cell walls are made of cellulose fiber that resists digestion, slowing the breakdown and the subsequent release of sugars into the bloodstream, kind of like the way a time-release capsule works.

Simple carbohydrates are found in most processed or refined foods and some natural foods. These carbohydrates have short-chained sugar molecules and, because they break apart quickly, enter the bloodstream quickly. Sugary foodsincluding corn syrup, fruit juices, and honeycontain glucose that is absorbed directly through the stomach wall and rapidly released into the bloodstream, almost as quickly as if delivered by syringe.

Brain Power ? The Energy of Thought and Memory

Most of us have discovered that thinking can be tiring, even exhausting. As the primary source of energy in the human brain, glucose can be rapidly used up during mental activity.

Some interesting research has shown that mental concentration actually drains glucose from a key part of the brain associated with memory and learning ? underscoring just how crucial this blood sugar is for proper brain function.

Too Much Blood Sugar ? Too Little Brain Sugar

A sugary snack or soft drink that quickly raises your blood sugar level gives you a boost (and any caffeine adds to the lift), but it's short-lived. When you eat something with a high sugar content your pancreas starts to secrete insulin. Insulin triggers cells throughout your body to pull the excess glucose out of your bloodstream and store it for later use.

Soon, the glucose available to your brain has dropped. Neurons, unable to store glucose, experience an energy crisis. Hours later, you feel spaced-out, weak, confused, and/or nervous. Your ability to focus and think suffers. The name for this glucose deficiency is hypoglycemia , and it can even lead to unconsciousness.

How to Control Blood Sugar Swings

Frequent blood sugar swings stress the mind and emotions, and chronic stress raises insulin levels ? creating a vicious cycle.

A helpful way to learn how to minimize blood sugar swings is to know which carbohydrates are the slowest time-releasers of sugar. The glycemic index measures how quickly blood sugar increases after eating a particular food.

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sorry for the lecture, it's just that "carb bashing" is a personal bugbear of mine!

Sausagesarenottheonlyfruit · 08/01/2012 14:21

...and glucose is manufactured by the body in the absence of carbohydrate, via the process of gluconeogenesis.

banana87 · 08/01/2012 14:57

Very interesting Chandron. I think having a look back through my food diary, I am eating far too many simple carbohydrates which may explain my lack of weight loss.

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banana87 · 08/01/2012 15:45

Is snacking on nuts (I.e. almonds, pistachios, and cashews) ok?

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ameliagrey · 08/01/2012 17:48

Nuts are good- walnuts best, almonds and brazils. But they are very high in cals- so don't have too many. A small handful can easily be 300 cals- I think brazils are something like 50 cals each.

ameliagrey · 08/01/2012 17:52

www.weightlossresources.co.uk/calories/calorie_counter/nuts_seeds.htm

here you are

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