I am 46 and have had a bunion for years. It is a bit painful althought not agonising and I have managed to find shoes I can wear so that you wouldn't notice it and I wear boots and leggings in winter. However, its starting to get worse, not so much more painful, but my big toe is starting to curl over my next toe ( how attractive). I had an x ray at hospital and the surgeon said it is a big op and a long recovery time. He said it was a lot to think about, but its better to have it done sooner than later as the younger you are the better it will heal.
I work as a nursery nurse and am on my feet the whole time, so would have to take loads of time off work. I have looked at recovery times and it seems like it would take weeks, even months to heal. I am petrified I will never be able to wear nice shoes again. Also dh works away on the oil rigs 3 weeks away 3 weeks home and I may have to be on crutches for weeks. Do I have it done or just sort of ignore it. I have such an active busy life and it seems like it will all go on hold just for a toe! so do I or don't I?