Anyone else Smear phobic ??

[Tillyscoutsmum]

I know that no one particularly enjoys them but is anyone really petrified of having them ??

I've just had my second reminder through this morning. I can't afford to delay it. I've already had treatment for pre cancerous cells 7 years ago. I genuinely feel physically sick at the thought of having it.

I thought I would get better as I got older. I've had two 10lb+ babies naturally with no pain relief so I'm not a complete wuss but .....

Any tips to get through it ? Even if its just a kick up the arse to book the appointment !!

Hi hun. I HATE smear tests and like you Im petrified of them, so I was glad in a way when I had to have a caesarean. On My last appointment the nurse realised I was very nervous, so she suggested I have whats called the "virgin" speculum. And honestly it was fine, was sooo much better( really tiny ) it wasn't uncomfortable at all. She said there are alot of women who ask for this "virgin" speculum. Maybe ask if they do that at your gp.

Thanks for answering I may try that albeit I'm not sure how effective it will be after those big babies

Yes! I'm holding out for an epidural...

Ask for smallest speculum- my cervix is tilted and they always have to fish about making me uncomfortable.

Last time nurse used smaller speculum and hey presto visualised cervix in no time and much less trauma.

Wear a skirt so you don't feel too exposed and chat as she is doing it regulates your breathing-

I loathe them but these tips help -it, is after all only 2 minutes max

my GP gives me half a valium before them. worked a treat, I was not at all petrified :)

Oooh thank you all Half a valium and a small speculim sounds like the way to go . Maybe I can take the other half to pluck up the courage to call and make the bloody appointment

Yes hate them was sent home as they couldn't access my tilted one! Then next appointment GP tried and failed! That was before I had my 3 bouncing babies but it has put me off for life!