I have a hip problem where the socket isn't properly formed - can't remember the name of it 
The consultant wanted to do an operation where he would basically hollow out a proper socket for it but I put it off and put it off because we were ttc DS, which took a lot longer than planned.
DS now 4 months and I am in near constant (minor) pain (bad today because had to carry tantrumming toddler DD out of the park yesterday
). Would like to get it sorted but worried about what it would involve - not painwise particularly but I have an idea in my head that it involves being bedridden for six weeks. Is that right or have I made it up? When on earth am I going to get the opportunity to spend six weeks in bed? 
I'm so fucked off this has been going on for over 12 years but I was fobbed off by GPs for years. I would have happily spent six weeks in bed when I was childless and employed 