Sorry to hear this Misdee, especially as it messes up your plans to see your DH.
On CP front however I thought I might add that my DS2 got CP at 13 months, he was still b/fed, and you would have barely known he will ill, didn't seem to bother him at all. I have heard from a few people that the younger the child is when they get CP the easier it is for them to deal with. The b/feeding is bound to help too.
Hope you are all better soon.