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I keep bursting into tears but im not upset or sad

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Tamba · 08/12/2005 14:05

I keep crying! you know that feeling in your stomach when you are about to cry? I keep getting that for no reason, even when i am perfectly happy.

Had to explain to dh that i wasnt upset or sad and i couldnt help crying - he thinks im a wierdy lol

also cried at Desperate Midwives, Little house of tiny terrors (or something like that) a magazine and half of the threads on mn today!

I am strange!

Is there any reason for it? Its just been in the last week or so,

thanks xxx

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Enideepmidwinter · 08/12/2005 14:06

pg

stressed

PrettyCandlesAndTinselToo · 08/12/2005 14:06

PMS? Pregnancy?

ParrupupumScum · 08/12/2005 14:07

Could you be due on? Are you pregnant? Are you tired? Have you eaten enough today?

maybetwo · 08/12/2005 14:08

just talking with meggymoo on a thread about me & her crying today, critical mass crying going on it seems.

Tamba · 08/12/2005 14:09

We use comdoms

I dont get PMS cause i dont have periods (although i must ovulate cause i have 2 ds's, doctor said ive got sticky ovaries of something, where the egg gets stuck)

Not overly stressed, just had a fab morning at the wakey warehouse and getting christmas deccies, hubby been off work for a few days so has been doing most of the childcare/housework, all ive done is read my new books! (which i am also keep crying at

Im gonna run out of tears soon!

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Tamba · 08/12/2005 14:10

Not tired, didnt get up til 10am

and have just eaten a mcDonalds (shoot me now - the kids had happy meals!)

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Tamba · 08/12/2005 14:23

I so need to pull myself together! Am now crying over nothing whilst stuffing my face with choccie (which i got from the mn christmas swop yummy!)

arrghhhhh i am a blibbering wreck!

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ParrupupumScum · 08/12/2005 14:26

Don't understand... Are you feeling emotional?

Tamba · 08/12/2005 14:33

Not overly emotional, i just keep crying

cried in B&Q this morning looking at my son as he gazed at the tinsel and stuff in amazment (hes 3)

My youngest who is 19 months, ran up and gave me a hug when i got up this morning - and i cried cause he was being so sweet

I am really emotional at the moment, well over the last week or so but dont know why!

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Tamba · 08/12/2005 14:34

Am also indecisive!

"Not overly emotional, i just keep crying"

and

"I am really emotional at the moment, well over the last week or so but dont know why!"

are totally the opposite statements!!

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RachD · 08/12/2005 14:51

I am exactly the same tamba.
Ds is 22 mths.
Discussed with doctor late post-natal-depression, polysystic ovaries ets etc.
Had blood tests done.
All negative.
None the wiser.
Not unhappy.
Do not feel depressed.
Totally baffled by it.

Enideepmidwinter · 08/12/2005 14:53

are you sure you aren't having a nervous breakdown

Tamba · 08/12/2005 14:59

enid

At least im not alone Rach!

How safe are condoms anyway????

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RachD · 08/12/2005 15:04

I really am none the wiser, Tamba.
Lets hope that one of the mn's can enlighten us both .

EliBeentoSantasGrotto · 08/12/2005 15:11

Sounds emotional to me! Here's a controversial thought: maybe it doesn't matter why, maybe you just need to cry a lot just now...maybe you happen to have the space/time/energy to do some catch-up crying...maybe its the time of year...?
Hugs anyway!

Tamba · 08/12/2005 15:17

Maybe you a right Eli, sometimes crying can be healing, past events and emotions being released. I dont think its a contriversial thought btw, its something i believe in myself

you know, deep down i think i am absolutly panicing that maybe the condom failed and im pregnant and that would be a disaster so i was hoping for alternative reasons lol

I cant be pregnant though cause we use condoms!!!

will keep telling myself that til i believe it lol

(no point me testing cause i never show positive til 4 months and i actually had a period at the begining of november - must be my yearly one woohooo)

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EliBeentoSantasGrotto · 08/12/2005 15:20

Oh good, never know when I'm being controversial so was playing safe
Speaking of safe, condoms are pretty good when used from the start - ifyswim - but hmm. Will cross fingers for you!

ladyjess · 08/12/2005 15:23

I am the same, I cry at the news, Our New life in Everwood (yes, how sad, my new favourite tv programme - god I need to get back to work), when my 2 year old ds1 is sweet, when i think about my family, etc, etc.

I don't feel down or depressed either. thought it might just have been general hormones as i am just stopping breastfeeding at the mo. yes, blame it on the hormones.

sorry, totally unhelpful comments!

bakedpotatohoho · 08/12/2005 15:23

I think it is a Christmas thing
It'll get worse as the month goes on

bakedpotatohoho · 08/12/2005 15:24

and in January dry hankies again

EliBeentoSantasGrotto · 08/12/2005 15:33

Stopping breastfeeding was the pits, hormonally, for me - had about two weeks solid of blues, tears, and gloom!

EliBeentoSantasGrotto · 08/12/2005 15:34

Christmas, yep, that'll do it too - in my case, mostly from too much exposure to my family and general knackeredness.

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