My mother in law has just had a malignant tumor removed from her bowel for the second time (she was 42 the first time, then nothing until now and she is nearly 70).
Her Oncologist has suggested that it is a rogue gene and that her children (ie my dh and his sister) along with her should be screened.
My dh is a terrible hypochondriac and is already convinced that he has bowel cancer waiting to happen (despite repeated colonoscopies etc). Should he go for it and then if he doesn't have the gene he can relax? If he does go for it and he does have the gene, what then?
I do appreciate that it is all in the aid of research, but I don't want my dh's life ruined by this. He is not good at coping with illness, I just think that maybe it's best not to know. But on the other hand, if he was clear...
And where does it stop? Do I get DD tested?
And what about the insurance implications? Will he be turned down from his private healthcare? He would have to disclose a positive result. Even if they don't turn him down, they may change policies in the future to exclude genetic pre-dispositions.
Oh it's all so difficult. Your opinions are welcomed.