Very interesting replies - thanks. I do, in my heart, and away from my neurosis, think it is post partum and hormone related - I am 41 and peri-menopausal (was told from hormone levels I was unlikely to get pregnant, more likely to have an early menopause first and I happily proved them wrong)
Actually, Gwinkofchocolate, I do have a little degree of hypermobility, so I've been told. My mum is same. I have checked myself previously against the Brighton criteria and I can only do the thumb to wrist. My little finger doesn't go all the way to 90%, maybe half. From the pictures, I don't think I've got hyperextension in knees etc. But a physio said I have more 'range' in my joints... and I have wondered if that made a difference. What would you suggest I do now?
I'm so sorry, Shitmagnet, that you're suffering as you are.
As it goes, I went to a very good yoga class last night and my feet this morning feel better. Far less stiff. Maybe that's what I need to do instead of more punishing cardio workouts that I've been doing. I'm a bit of a fit freak like that. Obviously the wrong time for it. Fingers crossed that my body is just working its way back to relative normality, though probably never the same as it was
Thanks all for your help and support