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So I went to GP with a chest infection and ended up back in breast clinic hell

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Lollybrolly · 29/03/2011 14:52

I have a horrendous history of breast and armpit lumps. Have been told I have swollen lymph nodes for about 4 years now but no one has ever told me why.
My lumps come and go. Some stay a few weeks some for years. some never go.
I leave each one as it comes as long as I can before going to GP as I feel I am on an endless cycle of breast clinic referrals.

I have lost count of the amount of times I have been to the breast clinic in the last 9 years. The problem seems to be when you are referred you can only be referred for 1 lump. The looks on their faces when they say so where is your lump then? I say well I have 1 here, 1 here, 2 here, and 3 here and 2 under the arm are looks of disbelief. They only evert scan 1 lump and only ever do a needle biopsy in 1 lump too.

I have had some brown/bloody type discharge the past year too from the same breast where the lumps gather.

Its been 4 years since they started gathering in my arm pits but they just keep saying swollen lymph nodes.

Anyway today I went to GP about a suspected chest infection. She put her hand in my armpit to see if my glands were up as I am feeling quite unwell when she comments on the lumps.

She has asked me to make another appointment to see her re my breast lumps as she is concerned. She said she wanted to read my full medical history from my notes too but that was another issue - the recptionist told me on the way out that my notes have never arrived from my old GP - requested almost 12 months ago. They appear to have been lost in transit. I have moved miles away - so totaly new Health Authority.

I just feel utterley depressed that this saga is unfolding ahead of me yet again. I knoe I should be grateful I am being taken seriously etc etc but I am scared. Terrified in fact.

I know too well what lies ahead and all the anxiety and my mental thought processes I will torture myself with over the coming weeks.

Am scared and utterly pissed off.

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sunshineandshowers13 · 29/03/2011 21:43

oh lollybrolly, have no words of wisdom or knowledge but couldnt let you go unanswered tonight.

sounds like your GP is being thorough and professional, could you go back and explain how freaked out you are by all this? GP's really dont mind reassuring patients (and its not wasting their time!)

please try not to worry too much (i know its easy to say),
sending you cyber hugs Smile

BehindLockNumberNine · 29/03/2011 22:02

oh lolly, I don't know what to say.
I have been through the breast clinic hell twice and the accompanying anxiety is overwhelming. Both times I descended into a deep dark pit of doom. Truly truly awful Sad

I am pleased they are looking out for you.

I am surprised that at the clinic they only scan one lump. Both times I have gone they have scanned both breasts (even though I only presented with one lump each time)

Keep your spirits up (easier said than done, I know Sad) and keep posting if it helps you get through the coming weeks.

Lollybrolly · 30/03/2011 00:08

Thank you for replying. Means alot especially from those that understand the gloom and anxiety that comes with this type of referral.

Was on the phone to my best friend earlier and she is pretty frank. She said that as I hadn't dropped dead yet with these lumps nor become degeneratively (sp??) ill, i should not panic too much. Half of me agrees with her the other half just freaks and thinks OMG what if I have had cancer for 4 years - Iif I have I will surely be a complete write off and never see my beautiful girls grow up.Sad
I am avoiding going to bed now. I am tired but know the minute I switch that light off my mind will go into overdrive.

Thank you for your support.

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smee · 30/03/2011 13:42

Hi Lolly, Not surprised you're upset and worried. Seems cruel you're going through it all again. Thought I'd suggest you come join us on the Tamoxifen thread. Often people join us while they're doing the whole referral thing - lots get good news, as I'd bet you will too, but we do all get the fear factor on there, so are good to natter to. Really hope you got some sleep last night. x

Celibin · 03/04/2011 18:34

I do not know where you live but I think you really are not in good hands, Cannot cope with more than 1 lump? We went through this I do not know, surprised looks and sighs business for years with a relatives medical problem but when we got referred to a specialist hospital (in London) we were met with help, real help Wonderful I would tell the Gp you have had enough of all this and ask to be referred else where PROVIDED OF COURSE YOU ARE PREPARED TO TRAVEL they can deal with more than one lump.You have the right to go elsewehere now and choose a hospital

TheFallenMadonna · 03/04/2011 18:41

You need to get every lump checked. My mum had multiple cysts for years, and then one that wasn't. I'm not saying it to scare you, really. This was 12 years ago and my mum is well. But insist on every lump being checked.

I know the dread and have been through the breast clinic thing myself too, and will again I'm sure (same issue appears to be starting for me). Stay strong.

Lollybrolly · 03/04/2011 22:22

Thank you. Celibin - I am in Wales but we have moved around the UK alot the past few years with DHs job. Only been here a few months.

I will see what she says on Wednesday. I am trying to not think about it much just now because I know once I let myself sink into the anxiety that will be it for me.

TBH - my chest infection is still so bad despite being on day 5 of 7 on antibiotics, I have been stressing about that instead - think I am in denial but it sure beats the sleepless teary nights I have had before.

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BehindLockNumberNine · 03/04/2011 22:26

Thinking of you lolly, let us know how you get on on Wednesday.

I hope the chest infection eases soon too.

Lollybrolly · 05/04/2011 23:04

Thankyou BehindLockNumberNine.

Well I am going to have to go to bed soon because I have to be up early as I have the first appointment of the day with GP. I am putting off going to bed though because I am scared my fear will kick in with nasty scary thoughts.

Have been remarkably calm actually - am wondering if it is because I feel so ill with this damn chest lurgy that I simply dont have the energy to get stressed.

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pinkstarlight · 06/04/2011 09:10

i can understand your fear as i have been there infact im still going through it,i just wanted to wish you luck.

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