I hope you are feeling a bit better today
& yes your DP is probably right as regards your work problems affecting your FM, stress is a killer for all of us I think, I do my best to avoid it like the plague, or at very least try & ask myself "will anyone die" & if the answer is no, then its not worth making myself ill over.....mostly works for me, though I can't often work anymore & when I do its for myself, which helps a lot with avoiding stress
Yes.... how you describe the arm thing is exactly as I know it, I've even had my viens on that arn/hand swell up as if I had a rubber band around it stopping circulation
.....I did keep going back trying to get answers for that, as I work with my hands & realised the more I did, the more it happened & in the beginning it was pretty scary ...amazing what you get used to isn't it
......I was eventually sent to an M.E. clinic, as we don't have a local FM one.....I hoped they might send me for tests that would finally get an answer to it, but the specialist there reckoned its very common amongst M.E patients & diagnosed me as also having full blown M.E. as a result
if I'm honest I'm still not sure though
............though from my experience people with M.E generally don't tolerate a lot of drugs well, I certainly don't & have to stick with the basic older style pain drugs, Amytriptiline made me MUCH worse
I have wondered if the swelling is some sort of Oedema, Drs say not, but I went to see a private Manual Lymphatic Drainage Therapist, who also does work for the NHS & she agreed I definitely show signs of that, & out of all the therapies I have tried that 1 is by far the most effective, forced myself to go on really bad days when struggling to walk or do anything due to pain, & have come away pain free, so I can highly recommend you trying it
I get the numb tingling too, though so far not permanent in my fingers, but I do have it permanently in a couple of toes, & patches of it elsewhere such as over my shoulder blade,
The Stabbing neck & shoulder pain is likely muscle spasms, I get that too, especially if generally having a rough time, muscles tighten, & spasm more easily during flares, I had my neck lock completely a few times & was given diazepam for this in A&E, it worked & now my GP has it on repeat so I have it at home when I need it, like morphine they are not keen to prescribe it though, due to its addictive nature, but thankfully my GP knows I hate taking pills, & only take when I really need too, the Pain Clinic were great with helping with all that) so she's now fine & it is a Godsend, means I can deal with it immediately rather than wait for appointments etc.
Reading your symptoms list though makes me wonder if you've looked into Thyroid problems thoroughly??, especially if you have any in your Family, the eye pain can be a symptom of that & the only others I've known who also get that have gone on to get a Hypothyroid Diagnosis at some point.....apparently the GP Thyroid tests are notoriously unreliable, but they are only allowed to do more indepth ones if you show up as at least borderline
There is an Ex NHS Endocrinologist "Dr Peatfield Durrant" who has written some good books on this one being "Your Thyroid & How To Keep it Healthy" he is a bit of a controversial figure, as he left/was booted out of the NHS (depending on who you talk to) for his veiws on the NHS testing & treatment not being good enough, I know several people who have seen a massive improvement in symptoms because of him, so definetly worth a read if nothing else
also do you know about Nurozan??, its a brain food type supplement aimed at helping students etc revise for exams, I personally found it can be a big help with the cognitive stuff, no cure, but definitely helps
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