My cousin has it. His brother is being tested for it and their other brother won't get tested even though his eyesight is truely appalling.
My nan said that only the women in the family are carriers but only the men get it, As this is my dads side, I thought that I couldn't be a carrier, but my nan gets info wrong, quite a lot. She said its what my aunt told her but I have been reading on the net and I can't see how they know this as they haven't had any genetic testing done, as far as I know.
My nan did tell me that my aunt was getting tested to see if she was a carrier. This was a while ago and I just asked her about it and she said she didn't know if my aunt was being tested, she can't rememeber.
I can't phone my aunt as relations with us are strained so can't speak to her about it. The cousin who has it and the brother being tested have different dads so it is likely to have come from my aunt.
DS is having his eyes tested next month due to a possible problem with his left eye (nothing to do with RP) but I am now worrying that I could too be a carrier and he could end up with RP and I would be devastated for him. 
I am probably worrying for nothing but I don't really understand all the technical stuff on the net so was wondering if anyone here has any experience or knowledge of it.